Thank you for stopping by my page!  Just so you know, some of my pages are only available to friends.  I'm leaving all my ideas public since these pictures aren't mine and if they can help you, I'm happy!  But as I make more progress with my DIYs and wedding details, I'll be adding more private pages to keep my personal ideas from prying family members or friends. I don't mean to turn anyone away, I just want to make sure my surprises are just that--surprises!

I am definitely a self obessed planner and knew a long time ago that my engagement would have to be a year long just to get everything that I would want to do done. My FH doesn't really care about the wedding planning, he just wants to "show up, eat good food, drink good drinks and have a hell-of-a-time".  So in a way it make it easier for me.  Most everything is done in a sense, we have booked all of our big vendors and just starting to finalize the details.  I'm looking forward to some DIY pojects now.

Please feel free to PM me with any questions, worries, concerns, or great stories!  I'd love to help you any time!

Matt and I have always been the casual couple and referred to as the married couple LONG before he even proposed. So our story could only reflect our down, home, casual style.

I love love love my ring!!! I always worried that I would be disappointed; I am very picky and sometimes confuse myself as to what the perfect ring is. Matt designed my ring and I still look at it everyday and get so excited, its soo pretty!!

I got these pretty cheap on MagnetQueen.com I paid about $70 for 100 which included shipping. I am going to include a pretty card with maybe a poem or some fun wording.

 This was just the first draft (obviously the last name is spelled wrong)

~~~POEM IDEAS~~~

1. Years ago when they were young
two lovers were brought
together as one.
Now and forever, partners in life
under church bells ringing, they'll
be husband and wife.

2. Husband and wife
We soon will be,
Please keep the date opened
and RSVP

Wedding bells will soon ring
for a long time we've waited for this dream
We are in love and always will be,
I'm the one for him, and he's the one for me.
No differences can keep us apart.
Our love for each other comes from the heart.

3. We're getting married and the date has been set,
Next year in Autumn, but please don't fret.
We know the date is a little while a way,
We're only telling you now, so you're free for the day.

September 18th is when we say our vows,
We hope to see you there, if your schedule allows.
Not many of the details have yet been decided,
But additional info will be later provided.

We really don't want you to forget,
And have to send us your regret.
So please place the magnet somewhere you'll see,
To keep you reminded of when the wedding will be.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Final Product

I used old boring wedding invitation kits from Walmart. Printed on the invitation part and used a prettier damask ribbon to tie the vellum to it instead of the boring white one it came with. I then used that "booger" dot glue to stick the STD magnet to it. Then printed directly onto the envelopes. For the invitation I will probably do the DIY Calligraphy just was impatient for these.

 Pre STD Magnet

I have to say I love, love, love my photographer. Not only is she my sorority sister, but she has owned her own business for a while and is amazingly creative and has yet to take a picture that I dont love. Check her out at Greatfxphotography.com

Matt and I decided that we love each of our friends the same amount and could never chose one over the other to be MOH or Best Man so they are all Bridesmaids or Groomsmen.

The Women:

 Kristin Cummins- Bridesmaid

I have known Kristin for almost 6 years we worked together for 5 years before I transferred to Human Resources. I can talk to this girl about anything and everything she is always there and she is always down (with a smile) for whatever crazy scheme I come up with that weekend. She has been there through all my ups and downs and mental breakdowns. She has the greatest ability to listen to everything and stay calm, I know she will be perfect for the job.

 Julianna Bradford- Bridesmaid

Haha I can't look at this girl and laugh. We met when I was working my second job at Longs in October 2007. I honestly thought this girl was a little off; who goes around asking what direction do the sheep jump when you count sheep?? Yea I know you just laughed, right? And this is why I love this girl. We continue to have our weekly date night where I get we to catch up and I mostly get to live vicariously through her escapades. She's a little crazy and I don't deny that for one moment; however, I know she would be there for me for anything; including pouring a drink on my exes head. Don't let that sweet and innocent look fool you!!!

- Kaitlin (Kat) Nieto

Ahh Kat the newest addition to the bridal party and the family. Kat has been a long friend of Julie's and frequented the halls of this house many times prior to moving in. We didn't hang out much until she moved in last year and instantly clicked, she is Matt's long lost little sister (its creepy). She is sweet, but spicy, girly, yet a tomboy, hilarious, but serious. She is Kat and what you see is what you get and I couldn't love her more.

 The Men:

 Collin Cooney

Collin Collin Collin! Great pic bro. We have been friends since kindergarten. You'll see a recurring theme here in a minute. During grammar school we were inseparable and did just about everything together. Throughout high school we ran in different circles, but were still friends and I knew I could count on him for anything I needed. Then for college he ran to LA and I figured he'd stay there. I was wrong he came back and we have continued a great friendship. I can still count on him for anything I need and I know he'd be there for me and he's always good for a laugh.... I mean come on he could have been an actor!

Johnny Holly

What can I say about Johnny. I have known him personally since the second grade, like I said reoccuring theme right, but our families have known eachother forever as far as I know. During grammar school high school and everything we have been inseparable. Even when he went off to the army and served in Iraq we still talked alot. I was beloved by his family and he is beloved by mine. I was the only guy allowed to come over when HE was grounded. This guy literally would, and has, dropped everything because I told him I needed him. Johnny has one of the biggest hearts in the world and would do anything for those he cares about. That said, he also loves to watch me get absolutely fall down drunk. He is a bartender so I guess thats his job.

Rossi Zaragoza

Rossi and I have been friends since Kindergarten. What did I tell you Ive known all these guys since I was a little kid.  Rossi is a great friend and another guy that I have been super close to throughout grammar school and high school and when he went to Delta and when I was well enrolled there but not going to class. Our families used to spend summers together at the beach and I can see someday our wives and kids doing the same.  Rossi is one of those guys that will be there no matter what and give you the shirt off his back if you need it or get you back to your house in the back of a pickup in the rain because you have to go to work the next morning and you are passed out drunk. Not that I know that first hand right Ross?

- Bo Bradley Leland

I plan on giving a list of expectations to my bridesmaids. I figure this will hopefully clear up some questions and since I have no maid of honor Im sure they may be slightly confused as to who takes care of what. However, I am also nervous that this may offend them.

Have any of you done this? Was your bridal party offended?

List stolen from theknot.com:

·         Offer to help the bride with prewedding tasks. Try to be specific when you volunteer. For example, say, "Would you like me to help you shop for bridesmaid dresses/stuff invitations/pack for the honeymoon?" instead of just, "What can I do?"

·         Scout out bridesmaid dresses, shoes, jewelry, and other wedding accessories. Pay for the entire ensemble. (Break in your shoes before the wedding day -- that will minimize slipping, blisters, and aching tootsies.)

·         Spread the news about where the bride and groom are registered. (Honeyfund.com)

·         Ask the bride when she expects the wedding invitations to be ready and plan an informal gathering.

·         Lend an ear. Whether it's about the planning, the marriage, or the registry, you should assure the bride that I have someone with whom she can share my thoughts. Even if I seem to dwell on the same subjects repeatedly.

·         Keep me laughing. For the stressed-out bride, laughter can be as effective as venting.

·         Host or cohost a bridal shower for the bride.

·         Attend all prewedding parties.

·         Keep a record of all the gifts received at various parties and showers

·         Plan the bachelorette party with the bridesmaids.

·        Sign the marriage license as a witness, along with the best man. (whoever can come that day)

·         See to it that all bridesmaids get to the rehearsal; coordinate transportation and lodging, if necessary. (Stockton Hilton)

·         Make sure that all bridesmaids get their hair and makeup done, get to the ceremony on time, and have the correct bouquets. (Kat will be doing hair and I will be helping with makeup)

·         Hold the groom's ring during the ceremony. Safest place to put it? On your thumb. (havent figure out what order you will stand in, person closest to me will have the ring)

·         Arrange the bride's train and veil before the ceremony begins and just after she arrives at the altar. Might also need to help her bustle the train for easy dancing at the reception.

·         Hold the bride's bouquet while the couple exchanges vows. (person closest to me)

·         Serve as auxiliary hostess at the reception by introducing guests, making sure they know where the bar is located, and inviting them to sign the guest book hand out directions to reception at end of ceremony.

·         Play hostess along with the other bridesmaids at frequent points during the reception: show guests where to sit, direct them to restrooms, tell them to where to put presents, invite them to sign the guest book, etc.

·         Toast the couple after the best man. (each of you) 

·         Ask what she's drinking at the reception and keep her cup full. Brides seldom make it through the crowd to the bar (just be sure her cup doesn't run over). 

·         Collect disposable reception-table cameras at the end of the night and get them developed.

·         Offer to be the end-of-the-party, final once-over girl -- collect the cake topper and toasting flutes, make sure Grandma is escorted to her car, etc.

·         Run last-minute errands. On the day of the wedding, be on hand to confirm flower delivery times, meet and greet the ceremony officiant or satisfy junk food cravings.

·         Hit the dance floor when the music kicks in. Also, be on the lookout for toe-tapping guests who might need encouragement and/or a dance partner.

I saw this show once on TV where your friends plan your wedding for you with the help of a wedding planner and you were stuck with their choices for better or for worse. Well one wedding was all done in Black, White, and Pink and I was in LOVE I just knew that this was going to be my wedding. Well some 10 years later I'm still obessed with the color combination so here are some pictures for my inspiration.

Damask

Black- Black is the color of authority and power. Considered the negation of color, black is conservative, goes well with almost any color except the very dark.  It can be serious and conventional. The color black can also be mysterious, sexy, and sophisticated. Use the color black to convey elegance, sophistication, or perhaps a touch of mystery. Dark charcoal gray and very dark brown can sometimes stand in for black.

White- Brides wear white to symbolize innocence and purity. White is purity, cleanliness, and innocence. Like black, white goes well with almost any color.

Pink- Both red and pink denote love but while red is hot passion, pink is romantic and charming. Use pink to convey playfulness (hot pink flamingoes) and tenderness (pastel pinks). Pink is a softer, less violent red. Pink is the sweet side of red. It's cotton candy and bubble gum and babies, especially little girls.

The Ceremony will be held at the Cathedral of the Annunication in Stockton, CA. Not being Catholic myself I cant say that I ever envisioned myself getting married in the Catholic church; let alone ever thought I would be able to not being Catholic. I did always love the idea of getting married in a church as it appeals to my somewhat (very little) traditional side, but everytime I thought of getting married I saw it outside. However, Matt went to Catholic school K-12 and both his parents and grandparents were married in this church. So with it being so important to him I caved.

Matt took me by the church and its beautiful, as most Catholic churches are, and I feel love and cant wait to walk done this LONNNNGGG aisle.

Ceremony

Prelude- Ave Maria- Schubert, Minuet in G- Beethoven, Panius Angelicus-
Processional- Canon in D- Pachabel, Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring,

Opening Prayer -

Father,

you have made the bond of marriage a holy mystery, a symbol of Christ's love for his church.

Hear our prayers for Matthew and Shannon.

With faith in you and in each other they pledge their love today.

May their lives always bear wtiness to the reality of love.

We ask you this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever

The Lord God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him." So the Lord God formed out of the ground various wild animals and various birds of the air, and he brought them to the man to see what he would call them; whatever the man called each of them would be its name. The man gave names to all the cattle, all the birds of the air, and all the wild animals; but none proved to be the suitable partner for the man.

 So the Lord God cast a deep sleep on the man, and while he was asleep, he took out one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. The Lord God then built up into a woman the rib that he had taken from the man. When he brought her to the man, the man said:

"This one, at last, is bone of my bones
  and flesh of my flesh;
This one shall be called 'woman,'
  for out of 'her man' this one has been taken."

 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body.

The word of the Lord.

Responsorial Psalm- Psalm 128: 1-2, 3, 4-5

I urge you, borthers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice holy and acceptable to God, your spiritual worship. Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, so that you may discern what is the will of God what is good and pleasing and perfect.

Let love be sincers, at what is eveil, hold on to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; anticipate one another in showing honor. Do not grow slack but be fervent in spirit; serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the holy ones, exercise hospitality. 

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Have the same regard for on another; do not be haughty but associate with the lowly; do not be wise in your own estimation. Do not repay anyone evil for evil; be concerned for what is noble in the sight of all. If possible, on your part, live at peace with all.

The Word of the Lord.

Alleluia Verse- 1 John 4:16

Whoever remains in love,

remains in God and God in him.

Gospel Reading- Matthew 5:1-12a

Presider: The Lord be with you.

Response: And also with you.

Presider: A reading from the holy gospel according to Matthew.

Response: Glory to you, Lord.

When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain, and after he had sat down, his disciples came to him.

He began to teach them, saying:

Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.

Bleassed are they who mourn,

for they will be comforted.

Blessed are the meek,

for their will inherit the land.

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,

for they will satisfied.

Blessed are the merciful,

for they will be shown mercy.

Blessed are the clean of heart,

for they will see God.

Blessed are the peacemakers,

for they will be called children of God.

Blessed are they who are persecuted for righteousness,

for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you

and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me.

Rejoice and be glad,

for your reward will be great in heaven.

The Gospel of the Lord.

Introductory Address

Statement of Intentions

Exchange of Wedding Vows

Blessing and Exchange of Rings  

Prayer of the Couple

Prayer of the Faithful

Prayer Over the Gifts

Lord,

hear our prayers and accet the gifts we offer for Matthew and Shannon.

Today you have made te one in the sacrament of marriage.

May the mystery of Christ's unselfish love, which we celebrate in the eucharist, increase their love for you and for each other.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

Preface

Well there is a long story about our wedding date and reception hall:

We had originally decided that we wanted to get married on 10/2/10, I just liked the date. However, the church wasnt available that day, we couldn't to the following weekend as another one of his friends was getting married that weekend. So I went the weekend prior well no reception venues were available. So I called the church back and she gave us September 18th, well our first choice was not available and amongst my frustrations and re-searching I found Le Bistro and I love it more than the others. It just seems to work with our attitude and theme.

Le Bistro, Stockton- Show Room

8:00- Wake Up/Breakfast

9:00- Hairstylist Arrives

10:00- Makeup Artist Arrives

10:00- Groom/Groomsmen Wake up

11:30- Florist Arrives with bouquets

12:00- Photog Arrives

12:00- Groom/GM/FOG Pictures

12:15- Bride/BM/MOB Pictures

12:20- BM Dressed

12:45- Get into dress

12:50- Groom leaves for church

1:15- Family arrives to church 

1:30- Bride/BM/FOB leave for church

2:00- Prelude

2:10- Ceremony Begins

3:15- Ceremony Ends

3:15- Bridal Party/Family Pics

4:00-9:00- RECEPTION

4:00-Cocktail Hour

4:30- Bridal Party Arrives

4:50- Guests Sit down

4:55- Intro of Parents and Bridal Party

5:00- Intro of Bride and Groom

5:05- First Dance

5:10- Blessing of the Meal?

5:10- Dinner Served

5:20- Toasts Start

6:10- Father/Daughter Dance

6:15- Mother/Son Dance

6:20- Mingle Dancing

7:00- Bride/Groom Toast

7:05- Cake Cutting

7:10- Cake Served/ Dancing

8:00- Bouquet Toss/ Garter Toss

8:45- Last Dance

9:00- Depart to Hotel

I totally stole this list from LuckyLove just removed a few things I know we wont be doing and added all my own notes...

• Invites for:
  •  bridesmaids tea-bought from party city
  •  rehearsal- bought from party city
  •  ceremony/reception-created
  •  brunch-card in main invite for those invited
• Card with our website/registry on it- business card style (ordered paper)
• Save the dates- magnets came, creating paper back piece
• Favors- boxes here, order chocolates
• Favor tags- http://www.diyhangtags.com/ or something like this with our monogram  courtest of Jessica's Design Shop

• Table numbers (pictures of Cali w/numbers)
• Seating chart--ugh
• Tears of joy packets- http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://s3.amazonaws.com/wedding_prod/photos/0c353654fe85caad8bd611c2805dc739&imgrefurl=http://www.projectwedding.com/w iki/show/diy-wedding-challenge-tears-of-joy-packets&h=720&w=960&sz=16&tbnid=Fr_bFC1Nty5WyM:&tbnh=111&tbnw=148&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dtears%2Bof%2Bjoy%2Bpackets&usg=__RwKSqie0iCM6PFdpkYeN112EKZU=&ei=tvcyS7SJIozQsgOPv83 OBA&sa=X&oi=image_result&resnum=6&ct=image&ved=0CBcQ9QEwBQ 
• Signs for the bathroom baskets- poss
• Signs for the guestbook table- poss
• BM newsletter- volume 1 complete, volume 2 complete
• Map from Ceremony to Reception- paper ordered, map created-4x6 paper
• Layered Programs- paper ordered
• Day of timeline for bridal party, vendors, DOC
• Tip envelopes
• RSVP Cards
• Menus- http://diy.weddingbee.com/topic/semi-homemade-double-sided-silly-menus, 5x7 paper
• Escort Cards- http://www.projectwedding.com/wiki/show/diy-wedding-challenge-diy-escort-cards

My bridesmaid and FMIL went to look at dresses and Bridesmaid dresses on 12/5, they were definitely more lucky than I. We found one that we all fell in love with, which trust me was definitely a feat in its self especially with my dress snob Julianna.

As for the wedding dress it's definitely back to square one. I had this perfect vision of this beautiful satin gown with off the shoulder straps, but I tried it on and thought I was going to throw up. I looked horrible so I sucked it up and tried on some strapless which looked better, but now I have to lose the pudge in my arms (I was trying to hide it before).

But here is the bridesmaid dress along with some dresses that I like:

~~~Bridal Dress Inspirations~~~

 Allure

- Allure

Alfred Angelo

Alfred Angelo

Mori Lee

What the FI will wear:

Groomsmen will be in the "normal" tux:

I bought these earrings at Target the other day I thought they were perfect for the dress. I am not a big earring person so I didnt want to go to elaborate even though the ones in the pictures above are gorgeous, they just aren't me.

Shoes- Dyeables Angie (will be dyed Hot Pink)

found new shoes.

Shoe Clips- From Nylora on Etsy Pics from seller---

Hair clip- From WeddingsandSuch on Etsy

 actual pic

and the one I made  Cant decide between white, black, or pink

Amazon- $28.99

We are using these as our invitations, but I am going to spruce them up a bit by adding an outer envelope, adding some rhinestones, changing the ribbon to fuschia, we are using a wax seal instead of the sticker. I used the sticker on the DIY Tears of Joy packets.

- dont think I will be using the labels..

Final Product

My mom put together a cute, cheap guest book idea with fabric and monogram on the front and put and scrapbooking stuff on the inside.

Another DIY love my garter!!!

My mom has been a wedding cake baker/designer for many years so at least I knew this part was taken care of. Here is my inspiration picture:

--- Minus the butterflies

Layers are still undecided, but here are some thoughts:

Red Velvet

Marble w/Kahula

Champagne w/Raspberry cream cheese

Chocolate w/Strawberries

Chocolate chip w/choc mousse

Banana choc chip w/choc mousse

Choc or white cake with/ oreo mousse

Chocolate w/white chocolate and strawberries

I will be a custom made menu from double trouble designs once I iron it out, but this is what we have so far.

They will possibly be providing appetizers for free once they redo their catering packages. I thought that was perfect I am only looking for fruit and cheese during the cocktail hour.

All entrees are served with a mixed green salad (NEED TO PICK DRESSING), seasonal vegetable, and dinner rolls.

Herb Stuffed Organic Chicken- tender chicken breast stuffed with herbs prepared sous vide

NY Steak- topped with a sauteed portabella mushroom in cabernet demi glaze

The favor boxes came! Sorry its a stock photo Ill take more ASAP, I am going to put dark chocolate espresso beans and white chocolate covered pretzal balls.

Just some little things we have made

- tears of joy

 Pen holder

-- mirrored candle holders for sweetheart table. Dont mind the dishwasher :)

-chargers for the sweetheart table- toasting flutes

Had an idea to do baskets in the bathroom for the little necessities. I see this is more popular now but here is cute picture I liked:

Ladies' Bathroom Basket

1st Aid Kit w/ extra band aids
Pain Killer (i.e. Aleve or Tylenol)
Antacid
Eye Drops & Contact Lens Cleaner
Clear Nail Polish, Nail Clipper & Emery Boards
Hand Sanitizer & Moist Towlette
Blotting Sheets
Lotion
Cotton Swab & Cotton Balls
Hair Spray & Bobby Pins
Mouth Wash
Dental Floss
Mints
Stain Remover
Lint Remover
Stain Remover
Tampons & Pads

Gentlemen's Bathroom Basket (difference: replace Tampons for Shoe Polish, replace Bobby Pins for a Comb)

1st Aid Kit w/ extra band aids
Pain Killer (i.e. Aleve or Tylenol)
Antacid
Eye Drops & Contact Lens Cleaner
Nail Clipper & Emery Boards
Hand Sanitizer
Moist Towlette
Lotion
Cotton Swab & Cotton Balls
Hair Spray & Comb
Mouth Wash
Dental Floss
Mints
Stain Remover
Lint Remover
Stain Remover
Shoe Polish

 Breath mints
Breath strips
Chewing Gum
Dental Floss
Mouth Wash
Toothpicks
Finger toothbrushes
Brush or comb
Small scissors
Nail Clippers
Emery Board
Eyeglass repair kit
Contact lens solution
Visine
Deodorant
Q-tips
Sunscreen
Bug Spray
Safety pins
Sewing Kit
Lint Brush
Tide-To-Go or Stain remover wipes
Hand Lotion
Hand Sanitizer
Moist Wipes
Pocket Pack of Facial Tissue
First Aid Kit or products
Headache/pain relief
Antacid/Indigestion relief
Matchbooks
AA or AAA batteries
Bottled Water

The following items would be more appropriate for women:
Bobby Pins
Hair Spray, mousse, or gel
Hair Ties (elastic, scrunchy)
Compact mirror
Tampons, pads, pantyliners
Earring backs
Blotting papers
Clear nail polish
Decorative Paper Towlettes
Nylons

The following items would be more appropriate for men:
Condoms (consider who your guests are and the type of event)
Shoe Polish
Foot Powder

So I looked at the reviews of a few of the designers to create a monogram for our wedding. I was blown away by Double Trouble Designs! I looked at their website and they had so many creative "on stock" designs that I decided to go with one of those. I got three for $12 and was amazed at how fast they were and so kind. They showed me proofs and responded to my every crazy question. I will be using them for the closure of the tears of joy packets, the favor tags, programs, etc... I am so excited!

My Map- I love it, this company is so fantastic and helpful...

 Just a clip :)

Menu Proof!

Stolen from xxashleyxx007:

Must take Photo List:

GETTING READY

• Bride's dress on the hanger or over a chair
• Close-up of bride's shoes
• Close-up of bride's bouquet
• Bride in curlers or having makeup applied
• Bridesmaids applying their makeup
• Bride putting on garter
• Mom and/or bridesmaids helping the bride arrange her dress, bustle the train, etc.
• Close-up of dress details
• Bride together with bridesmaids
• Bride with mom
• Flower girl(s) ready to go
• Mom or bridesmaids putting finishing touches on bride, adding the veil, etc.
• Bride spending moment alone, thinking quietly, praying or looking out the window
• Full-length shot of bride all dressed and ready to go
• Groom putting on tie
• Groom with groomsmen  
• Groom with dad, hugging or whispering advice
• Bride and groom separately getting in the car, limo or cab

CEREMONY 

• Wide shot of ceremony space from the back
• Guests arriving 
• Ushers helping grandparents and special guests to their seats
• Close up of details (guest book, pew decorations, etc.)
• Groom and groomsmen waiting nervously for bride to walk down aisle
• Guests sitting down, waiting for ceremony to start
• Bridesmaids walking down the aisle
• Wedding party standing at the altar
• Bride just before walking down the aisle
• Back shot of bride (and escort) beginning to walk down the aisle
• Full-frontal shot of bride (and escort) walking down the aisle
• Close-up of groom's face when he sees bride for the first time
• Back shot of bride and groom together at the altar with officiant between them
• Shot focusing on bridesmaids' bouquets, lined up as they hold them at the altar
• Close-up of each hand as the rings are exchanged
• Shot of both sets of parents' faces as they witness ceremony
• The kiss
• Happy couple walking back down the aisle together, as married couple  
• Bride and groom walking out of ceremony space, hand-in-hand

BEFORE THE RECEPTION ? During the cocktail hour (These can be taken before the ceremony)

• Full shot of bride and groom together, smiling
• Full shot of bride and groom hugging
• Full shot of bride and groom kissing  
• Close-up of couples' faces
• Bride with her parents
• Groom with his parents
• Bride with groom's parents
• Groom with bride's parents
• Bride with bridesmaids
• Groom with groomsmen
• Bride with groomsmen
• Groom with bridesmaids 
• Group shot of bride, groom, family and wedding party
• Groom leaning up against a wall with bride in front of him, kissing
• Bride and groom walking toward the camera, holding hands
• Bride and groom walking away from camera, holding hands
• Bride and groom looking off in the same direction together

RECEPTION

• Close-up of details (place settings, name cards, etc.)
• Close-up of centerpieces
• Wide shot of entire room before everyone arrives
• Bride and groom's first dance
• Groom dipping bride
• Bride dancing with her dad
• Groom dancing with his mom
• Close-up of cake
• Best man (or other guests) making a toast to the couple
• Bride and groom's faces as they listen to the toast(s)
• Guests smiling and clapping
• Guests dancing and cutting loose on the dance floor.
• Wide shot of entire room after guests arrive
• Close-ups of guests' faces, laughing and having a great time
• Groups of friends sitting together at their table or dancing
• Bride and groom whispering to each other
• Parents (or even better, grandparents) dancing
• Kids dancing or playing around
• Close-up of band or DJ
• Bride and groom cutting the cake
• Bride and groom feeding each other
• Bride and groom in back seat of getaway car
• Back of car as it drives away

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Apparel:
Gown
Shoes
Lingerie
Jewelry-earrings, necklace, bracelet
Bridal Hairpiece- ordered
Veil
Handbag
Something Old
Something New- dress
Something Borrowed- hair pins
Something Blue-hair pins
Bridesmaids' dresses- picked out, ordered
Bridesmaids' accessories- Necklace as gifts
Bridesmaids' shoes- black nothing specific
Groom's tux
Groomsmen tuxes
Garter- making
Gown preservation
Alterations
Bridal Shower Dress
Bachelorette Dress
Rehearsal dinner dress
Going away outfit- track suit
Honeymoon clothes

Flowers:
Bridesmaids' bouquets
Corsages
Boutonnieres
Throw away bouquet
Cake decoration

Stationary:
Invitations
Announcements
Reply cards
Save the date cards
Postage
Map- ordered with graphic designer
Newspaper wedding announcement
Thank you notes
Rehearsal dinner invitations
Bridesmaid luncheon invitations
Wedding programs- started
Escort Cards- cards made, waiting on RSVP
Tears of Joy Packets
Envelopes
Menu Cards

Rehearsal dinner: Mom, Dad, Bride, Groom, Bridesmaid (3), Groomsmen (4), Groomsmen Spouses (4), FIL, MIL, Dad, Carol, = 19ppl
Location fee- N/A
Food- La Palma
Groom's cake- guitar
StepDad letter
Gifts

Ceremony:
Officiant
Meet with site coordinator
Location fee- 750
Altar decorations-
Write Vows
Aisle Feathers-
Gratuity- $100 for officiant
Pick music-
Pick Readings- 
Program/Tears of Joy Basket
Transportation
Thank you parasol

Reception:
Location fee
Baker
DJ
Bartender
Liquor
Wedding cake
Cake knife and server
Toasting Flutes
Cake decorations/Topper
Finalize Menu
Table decorations-
Other decorations
Seating Chart
Table Numbers/Frames
Card Box
Toasting flutes
Napkins provided
Table cloths- provided and made runners
Tables- provided
Guest/scrapbook- being worked on
Centerpieces-
Candles- provided
Votives- provided
Select First Dance Song
Select Father/Daughter Song
Pictures and Music for Slideshow
Must Play/Do not Play List
Gratuities
Transportation

Photography:
Bridal portraits
Reception
Ceremony
Photo albums
Engagement portraits

Rings:
Wedding bands
Engagement ring
Engraving

Honeymoon:
Air fare
Accommodations- down payment
Extras

Gifts & Favors:
Attendant gifts- Girls track suit purchased, Need Accessories
Gift for fiancee- HD Camera? Sony XR-150 
Favors- boxes purchased
Favor Tags

Misc.:
Marriage license
Marriage Counseling-3/6-3/7
Book Hotel- 82063 and 82064
Bridesmaids' luncheon- 6/26 Napa Wine Tasting and Dinner
Hairdresser- Dollface, Livermore.
Make-up Artist- working on
Manicure/Pedicure- day before
Day After Brunch- Bride, Groom, MIL, FIL, Gpa, Nana, Dad, Carol, Mom, Dad, Uncle? =12ppl Noahs 1866-750-3624

The FI wanted someplace tropical, I wanted adventure and sightseeing (and not putting my big, pasty butt into a bathing suit). So after long talks about where we wanted to go (I swear this was harder than any wedding decision I made) we finally decided on Jamaica. This was a REALLY close tie with St. Lucia, granted St. Lucia won but then our wallet won--$5k more for St. Lucia :( So I looked into travel agents, website, everywhere and found that AAA (American Insurance Comp) was the cheapest--saved us $500 they provide discounted travel to their members. So I put the downpayment on the hotel and we will continue to research flight travel and hope something will come a little cheaper. I also found out that if I went to the Armed Service Depot they also offer discounted travel so if you know someone in the services have them help.

We will be staying 8nights at the Sandals Grande Ocho Rios in Ocho Rios Jamaica. We will have the Romeo&Juliet room with our own private pool and butler. I am so excited....

Ceremony

• Prelude:
  • Ave Maria- Schubert
  • Minuet in G
  • Panius Angelicus
• Processional:
  • Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring- Bach
• Recessional:
  • Royal Fireworks Music: The Rejoicing

Reception

• Entrance:
  • Dynamite- Taio Cruz
• Dinner:
• • It Had To Be You – Harry Connick, Jr.
  • Just the Way You Are
  • Love Will Keep Us Alive- Eagles
  • Isnt She Lovely- Stevie Wonder
  • Somewhere Over the Rainbow- Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
    
• First Dance:
  • Lost in this Moment - Big and Rich
• Father/Daughter:
  • Dont Cry- Guns N Roses
• Mother/Son:
  • My Wish- Rascal Flatts
• Cake Cutting:
  • Pour Some Sugar on Me- Def Leppard
• Bouquet Toss:
  • Maneater-Nelly Furtado
• Garter Toss:
  • Eight Second Ride- Jake Owens
• Last Dance:
  • A Little More-Skillet

~Responsibilities

Bride and Groom : Together

Bride

Groom

• Help compile guest list. Present list to bride at least 3 months before the wedding.
• Purchase bride's engagement and wedding rings and arranges engraving.
• Rent or purchase wedding attire.
• Choose all wedding attire and accessories for the male bridal party members.
• Plan and pay for honeymoon.
• Get traveler's checks for honeymoon.
• Obtain all necessary travel documents for honeymoon (i.e. passport, birth certificate, visa).
• Assist in any and all planning of ceremony and reception.
• Purchase wedding gift for bride.
• Pay for the bridal bouquet and all corsages and boutonnières for wedding party.
• Scout out hotels for out-of-town guests.
• Send out rehearsal dinner invitations.
• Arrive at ceremony site at least 1 hour early.
• Bring marriage license to ceremony site.
• Make payments to officiate and musicians.

Bridesmaids

• Assists bride in choosing a bridal gown as well as in choosing attendants' gowns and jewelry.
• Purchase gown and accessories that she will be wearing.
• Helps bride address invitations.
• Plan and host bridal shower.
• Plan and host the bachelorette party.
• Records gifts received at showers as well as collecting all ribbons and bows for making the rehearsal bouquets.
• Helps the bride assemble and decorate wedding favors.
• Helps bride and bride's family decorate the reception hall, if necessary.
• Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
• Arrive with at least 2 hours early to assist the bride in dressing.
• Organize bridesmaids and their gowns.
• Arrange bride's veil and train before and throughout the ceremony.
• Hold groom's ring during the ceremony if its not being carried by the ring bearer.
• Signs the wedding certificate as an official witness.
• Dances when the music starts at the reception and asks other guests to dance.
• Be gracious and serve as an auxiliary hostess at the reception.
• Run errands as needed by the bride.
• Help decorate the reception hall, if needed.
• Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
• Arrive early at the wedding dressing site.
• Walk down the aisle before the Bride
• Dance and are gracious at the reception.

Groomsmen

• Plan Bachelor Party 
• Rent or purchase wedding attire that is the same as the groom's.
• Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. 
• Arrives with the groom at least 1 hour before the ceremony.
• Helps keep the groom calm.
• Holds bride's wedding ring if not being carried by the ring bearer.
• Forwards payment to musicians and officiate from the groom.
• Makes the first toast at the reception and reads congratulations telegrams.
• Dances when the music starts and asks other guests to dance.
• Transport newlyweds to the honeymoon suite or airport after the reception.
• Organize the return of any rented wedding attire for all men in the wedding.
• Purchase or rent wedding attire.
• Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
• Arrive dressed at least 1 hour before the wedding.
• Distribute wedding programs.
• Ensure that all family members have corsages/boutonnières before being seated.
• Seat guests
  • Leave first few rows unseated to accommodate family members. 
• Check for any items left by guests at the ceremony site.
• Collect ceremony decorative items such as baskets, pew bows, and aisle runner.
• Dance when music starts and ask other guests to dance.

Father of the Groom

• Assist in compiling guest list.
• Purchase or rent wedding attire.
• Pay for and host the rehearsal dinner.
• Propose the first toast at the rehearsal dinner.
• Arrive dressed 1 hour before the wedding.  
• Pay for all beverages at the wedding reception.

Mother of the Groom

• Assist in compiling guest list.
• Purchase a dress that is complementary in color and style to the mother of the bride's dress.
• Plan the rehearsal dinner.
• Arrive dressed 1 hour before the wedding.

Mother of the Bride

• Assist bride in the selection of wedding gown and accessories as well as the color and style of the attendants' gowns.
• Help prepare guest list.
• Help record gifts received.
• Select a dress that will complement the color scheme of the wedding and inform the mother of the groom of the choice.
• Assist in details of ceremony and reception (i.e. caterer, DJ, photographer, etc.).
• Arrive dressed before the bride and the bridal party.
• Bring the guest book and unity candle to the ceremony and then to the reception.  
• Serve as official hostess at the wedding and reception.
• Gather the gifts after the reception and hold for the couple until after the honeymoon.

Father of the Bride

• Assist in preparing the guest list.
• Purchase or rent wedding attire that matches that of the groom and other male wedding attendants.
• Ride with the bride to the ceremony.
• Escort bride down the aisle on left arm.
• Stands to the left of the mother of the bride in the receiving line.
• Co-hosts the reception.
• Dances second dance with the bride at the reception.
• Last to leave reception.
  
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Our lovely puppy Cali, I swear this dog is our child.