Vow Stealing (cough cough INSPIRATION )

Thanks Johnsgirl0310

I, John/Ashley , take you, Ashley/John , to be my friend, my lover, and my wife/husband.  I will cherish our union and promise to love you more each day than I did the day before.  I promise to encourage and inspire you, to laugh and cry with you, to love you in good times and in bad, when our love is simple, and when it is an effort.  I give you my hand, my heart, and my love, from this day forward for as long as we both shall live.