After much thinking, I'm back to my original dress. I have ordered it without the halterneck straps and without a train. Can't wait for it to get here! You can see the original a couple of pages down.
So after trying a bunch of dresses on, we've decided that a mermaid is the best style for me. I wanted some lace also, so I added that, and a bit of sparkle :-) The picture is photoshopped from two different dresses, and I also made a drawing.