The centerpieces will be mostly hydrangeas and greenery I believe in vintage vases and/or mason jars and tons of laced votive candles around the arrangements.  I love the idea of all white wildflowers as well.

Both of the laced candle ideas are DIY.  The laced votives are from marthastewartweddings.com and the doilied mason jar DIY instructions can be found here.

Table Numbers

I would like to either take pictures of us, the kids, and altogether as a family with the table numbers printed on the actual pictures like this:

or go the vintage route with picture frame and a wooden number like these:

These frames are the Etsy shop: sandradownie 

I might even combine the two ideas and put the photos in a vintage, antique frame.