Hi Ladies!!  I enjoyed planning my wedding so much and giving advice to so many brides on here that'd I'm finally taking the plunge to do wedding planning professionally.  Please take a look below if you think these services fits your needs.

For the couple who has already booked vendors and planned the wedding but need a stylish professional to manage all the details so they can enjoy the day.

• Two in-person meetings
  • First meeting: review all vendor contracts provided by client, go through set-up items, and produce a tentative timeline of the wedding day.
  • Second meeting: meet at venue (if available) to go through final details of the wedding day.
• Unlimited contact via email from the time of contract.
• Monthly email “check-ins” with the client to ensure that all planning is coming up to speed.
• Produce and distribute a minute by minute timeline of the wedding day for vendors and bridal party.
• Contact and coordination with all contracted vendors to ensure a flawless execution.
• Assist with set-up of all wedding elements not handled by a specific vendor (e.g. seating cards, favors, guestbook, table numbers, etc.)
• Direct ushers and helpers with seating and program distribution.
• Production of a customized “day-of” preparation checklist.
• Unlimited time on the day of the event, from set-up to tear down.
• Onsite coordination and management of entire wedding day.
• Handle final payments and gratuities to vendors.
• Every wedding includes one coordinator. Additional coordinators will be required for larger weddings, and specific or multiple locations
• Starting at $400

For full coordination, I highly recommend a good friend of mine from college--Linda Chow from Lavish Celebrations.  She can be found with several great reviews on PW here: http://www.projectwedding.com/vendor/show/lavish-celebrations.  I've assisted with her on some weddings, and she is a true pro and what she does.  She has also been featured on Style Me Pretty.  I challenge you to check her out!

**Because of my full time job, I'm only taking a few weddings per year and to ensure that you get all the attention a bride needs.  Thanks!

We got married on September 20, 2008 at Pacific Hills in Laguna Hills, CA.  Everything was amazing!  All the planning, hours spent on the PW forum, reading other bride's bios, looking through photos and blogs for ideas etc. paid off in a big way. 

Pro-teasers by Nataly Lemus!!!

Some non-pro pictures...

Getting ready w/ my beautiful mom and MOH:

The ceremony:

Our first dance and sweetheart table:

We just got married Sept 20th!  Please give me your best offer.  Items are avialable for pick up.  I work in LA, my husband works in OC and we live in the Fullerton area.  Otherwise we can ship it to you too:

**SOLD**My Monique Lhuillier Nadia Gown:  $1300 OBO...It's a beautiful dress!  I got so many compliments on it.  Even guys came up to me and told me they loved my dress.  Apparently it brought out their metrosexualness.  It's hard to let it go, but there is no reason for me to keep it.  Because of its sentimental value, ladies in the SoCal area may try it on before purchase.  Otherwise I will ship it to you.  Pics are in my bio.  It's a street size 0, B-cups sewn in the dress, and I'm 5'0" wearing 4 inch heels :)  I had an indoor wedding...and took a few pro pics outside so it is in pristine condition.  It's out right now for cleaning and preservation.  I should get it back in 3 weeks.

**SOLD**Champagne Sash: Typically these run around $100 at Bridal Salons.  It's in perfect condition, so I'm going to sell it for $50 OBO. Pics are above.

**SOLD**Chapel & Waist Length Veils:  I ended up only using my chapel length veil during the ceremony.  It creates a pretty dramatic effect and great for professional photos.  I totally recommend chapel length.  I'm selling it for $80 for both OBO.  Pics of the chapel length veil are in my bio.  My waist length veil is exactly the same just shorter--pics are below.  It's very simple/classic off white with a comb and champagne satin trim.

Crystal Chandelier Earrings - I purchased these at Mon Amie Bridal Salon in the OC.  I didn't end up wearing it because I wore my hair up with a necklace and I felt like it was too much.  I'm selling it for $75.

~~~~~~~Please give me your best offer for the following items~~~~~~~~

**SOLD**Silk Double Orchid Hairpiece - I loved my hair piece.  There's a few pictures of it on top.  Below is a close-up.

**SOLD**9 Tall Cylinder Candle Holder Vases--pic below.  It is wrapped with a pink satin ribbon using double sided tape.  You can remove it or use it.

**SOLD**12 brand new floating candles.  To save money we just used water and food coloring with the candles floating on top to decorate our cocktail area, but you can also dip flowers in the tall cylinders vases with the floating candles.

2 Tall Square Vases used for bridesmaids' bouquets

**SOLD**20 unused clear voltive candles --pic below

Signs - Mr. & Mrs., MOB, FOB, and MOG.  Even though they were fairly simple reserve seating signs, they made  for great professional photo shots. 

Cardbox

My shoes! - They are Steve Maddens I saw in a Bridal Magazine from 2007, and I believe I purchased it from www.endless.com for $110ish.  I used it only once on my wedding day.  Some dirt on the heel.  Fairly clean.  Size 6 1/2. 

Basket used for our Ladies Bathroom Basket.  It's simple and small enough for any bathroom counter.

**SOLD**1 bag of unopen rose pink rose petals.

How We Met
by Jack!
It was in late 2001 when Lan and Jack first met. Lan, along with her significant other at the time, came to visit Jack's roommate. Few words were exchanged between the two that night since Jack was busy eating his lasagna and apple sauce and wondering if he should have offered Lan any of his delicious dinner combination.
On a random day, sometime in the summer of 2002... Jack noticed that Lan's away-message indicated she needed a ride to her interview for a Merrill Lynch internship. He offered to drive her and she accepted. On that fateful afternoon, the two of them shared a strawberry shortcake sundae and a plate of potatoe skins at Hard Rock Cafe in downtown La Jolla. Several dates later and after a late night showing of Minority Report, Jack and Lan decided to make their relationship "official"... maybe it was the Tom Cruise film, or maybe it was the thrill of Jack letting Lan drive his awesomely beat-up 1990 Toyota Camry station-wagon that night... but ever since then, the two of them have been inseparable

The Proposal
By Jack!
I took Lan on a picnic at a local park near my house on December 4th, 2007. It was a really nice regional park with a serene lake on a beautiful sunny day. And to top it off, it didn't even smell like the cows in the nearby dairy farms. I had prepared these deliciuos takeout foods from Applebees since I didn't have enough time to actually make the food with all the other preparations.

I was extremely nervous during the picnic... much like a bumbling Hugh Grant trying to woo his Julia Roberts (From "Notting Hills"). I took out my newly purchased, cheap little iPod carrying case with mini speakers from Walmart (which I purchased the previous night at 2AM for the occasion) and put on my "Make Lan Weak In the Knees" playlist that I've put together.

The playlist started off with Alicia Keys' "Like You'll Never See Me Again", which was a great love song to set the mood. By this time, Lan was just chilling and laying down with her magazine. I sat there, staring out to the lake and trying to prepare myself for the big moment... or actually, I was waiting for the next song to come on. Finally, the second song comes on, Alicia Keys' "Tell You Something". I thought this might be the perfect moment since I did indeed have something to tell her! (Yes... cheesy.. but so awesomely cheesy) I hand her an envelope that I've been hiding and I mutter "Umm... I got something for you.. Here you go.." Lan excitely takes the envelope and opens it. While she's doing so, I move myself into position with my self-taught ninja skills, kneeling behind her.

She opens the envelope to find a folded picture which consisted of four 2x2 pictures of me. In each picture, I'm holding up a different sign saying "Will. You. Marry. Me?" And in each picture, I'm in a different outfit to add to the originality, provide some color and to further make Lan swoon with my great taste in sexy attires.

After seeing the pictures, Lan turns around to find me on my knees with the ring open in its box. I asked her to marry me in which she replied... "OK!"... with tears in her eyes, she then asked "... Are you sure?"... then "OK,YES!" again. With the sun positioned perfectly above and behind me, the ring sparkled and shined in the light and reflected it's brilliance everywhere. It was a real nice added effect, especially with Alicia Keys singing in the background. In fact, I was surprised that the fishermen nearby did not stop and start a slow clap for us. But it's ok... because I performed the slow clap myself.

• Venue/Food - Pacific Hills in Laguna Hills, CA - Review posted
• Dress - Monique Lhuillier Nadia Gown                                                                 
• Officiant - Tie The Knot Ceremonies- Review posted
• String Quartet - Fiddlestix
• Photographer - Nataly Lemus - Review posted
• Day Before Hotel - Hyatt in Irvine 
• Makeup/Hair Artist - Natalie Buketov - Review posted                                                              
• Florist - City of Commerce Flowers- Review posted
• DJ/MC - High Resolution Productions- Review posted
• Uplights - Pacific Hills
• Alterations for Dress - Mahtab                                                                         
• Save the Dates - Shutterfly
• Invitations - Wedding Paper Divas
• Favors - Caramel apples- Review posted
• Honeymoon Suite - The Island Hotel in Newport Beach
• Honeymoon - Booked Sheraton in Maui for one week
• Tuxes - Friars
• BM Dresses - JCrew
• Wedding Rings - Robbins Brothers
• Stationary - Serendipity Design
• Garter - The Garter Maker

Just because he's so adorable:

(1) Personalizing table numbers:  We asked our awesome photographer--Nataly Lemus, to take pictures of our hands to use as table numbers during our engagement session.  To be extra cautious we also backed it with nice metallic stationary with numerical numbers on it too, in case it was still confusing.  

(2) Non-cheesy Slideshow:  We used www.animoto.com to streamline our photos to the Jack Johnson song "Better Together"..and we made sure to put in not only baby pictures, but pictures of our parents' wedding, drunk photos, Party Boy photos (if you ever watched Jackass you'd understand), photos of friends/guests from the wedding, classic Lan & Jack photo poses (which are two thumbs up--my DH just loves doing it)..it was a big hit, and probably my favorite part of the reception events.

(3) Flip Flop Baskets:  They are really popular right now for good reason.  All the girls really appreciated getting off their heels after the ceremony, cocktail hour, etc..  A huge plus that it is really easy to make.  I waited for the Old Navy $1 sale to buy them and purchased my baskets for about $5 a piece from Cost Plus World Market.

(4) Ceremony Music:  We hired Fiddlestick String Quartet for our ceremony musicians and they played the Beatles' All You Need Is Love for our recessional.  The Beatles are one of favorite bands and it was a great way to personalize all the traditional ceremony stuff.

(5) Something Borrowed:  I wrapped my mom's pearl necklace three times around my wrist to use as a bracelet. 

(6) Reusing Flowers:  We recycled our ceremony flowers for our reception hall.  In particular we used our pomander balls to line up our grand entrance.  We used our large manzanita trees as the background for our sweetheat table.  It looked beautiful!

(7) Reserve seating signs:  We had reserve seating signs for the wedding party.  It made everyone feel extra special.  I never saw my parents so happy.  I highly recommend doing it!

(8) 'Thank' 'You' signs for our thank you cards to our guests!

(9) Kiss in the Middle of the Aisle:  My DH and I made sure to kiss in the middle of the aisle during the recessional.  It was one of the many planned photography shots we wanted after searching through photographer blogs over the planning months. 

(10) B-Pics:  If you do a budoir photobook for your husband, give it to him on the wedding day, so it gives him something to think about the entire day ;)  Also, make sure your 2nd photographer get photos of him opening it.  Those were some of my favorite photos!

(11) Survival Kits for Vendors:  I made a few wedding survival kits for my vendors who would work ALL DAY, like my photographer and planner.  I purchased a set of 10-12 gift bags from Target's wedding section and filled it with Red Bull, Smart Water, emergency chocolate, snack size trail mix, Goldfish and asian trail mix.  They really appreciated it and it only cost a few dollars per bag to make. 

Our tea ceremony took place a week before our legal and western style wedding at our respective family homes.  In vietnamese tradition the bride wears a traditional dress called Ao Dai.  These days they are pretty elaborate with shiny beads and very detailed embroidery, but I chose to honor my parent's wedding and wore my mother's much simpler Ao Dai from her wedding day instead.  It turned out to be a big hit and mentioned several times during the family speeches.  The bride also typically wears a hat called Khan Dong.  I must warn you the darn thing weighed nearly 5 lbs on my head!  If you could get away with wearing a tiara I absolutely recommend doing that instead.  There's also an Ao Dai the groom could wear, but these days they usually opt for a suit and it isn't seen as disrespectful in any way.

Receiving the Bride at her Family Home - My groom's family and friends brought 6 to 8 (I can't remember exactly the number, but it was important that it was an even number) boxes of traditional gifts in red tins rented from Van's Bakery in Little Saigon.  The tins were filled with traditional candles, cakes, fruit, tea, alcohol (it has to be top notched for show :( --we used Remy Martin XO's), a bridal bouquet, a huge pig, and finally jewelry.  Luckily my MIL was already planning to remake her engagement and other jewelry as gifts for me, so it wasn't too awkward telling her that this was part of our traditional ceremony.  After receiving the gifts and welcoming the groom's party the candle ceremony takes place, followed by a tea/alcohol ceremony and speeches.  Because my family is partly Buddhist we kneeled down and prayed for well wishes from our ancestors as well.

The vietnamese ceremony took less than 20 to 30 min.  The prep work was the hard part.  My mom worried for weeks about the food that was served for our small reception afterwards.  The subtle differences between vietnamese and chinese cultures are immeasurable.  At the outset I thought it would be so simple, but it turned out to be an emotionally charged event.  Luckily everything went mostly smoothly on the day of. 

Groom's House - After the ceremony, the bride is considered to be apart of the Groom's family.  At my groom's house we followed the traditional chinese tea ceremony.  The bride along with the groom serves tea to each older, immediate family member beginning with the eldest.  The bride typically hands over the tea.  After serving each person or couple they offer red envelopes filled with money gifts.   The chinese tea ceremony was so much easier!

Both ceremonies took about 3 hours combined mostly due to the eating (asian ppl love to eat many courses) and traveling from the bride's house to the groom's.

If you have any questions on either ceremonies please feel free to PM me.  Good luck! 

My parent's wedding.. beehives and all :)

Some good things and huge mistakes I made with beauty right before my wedding:

(1) DON'T - cut your hair for at least 5 months before the wedding.  i really had high hopes for having a down-do for my wedding, but my hair was not nearly long enough.  i thought it would grow in the 3 months after i cut it, but it only grew about 1" if that.  but i did end up loving my updo.

(2) DON'T - wax a fews days before the wedding.  i got a brazilian bikini, brow, arm, underarm and upper lip wax three days before the big day.  mainly because i was procrastinating.  huge mistake!  GINORMOUS mistake!  the waxer was very experienced in a salon down in the OC, but she still burned my face!  my sister gave me the advice to put on vaseline to heal it.  it helped a little.  on my wedding day i also applied visine to get rid of the red color.  a trick i used for pimples.  also my make up artist blended my foundation pretty well, but boy it made me worried the days leading up to the big day.

(3) DO - try out teeth whitening.  white teeth does a lot to make you look youthful and fresh.  i used brite smile in irvine.  i did it a week before my wedding.  it was hard to eat only white things for one day, and my teeth were a little sensitive the day  of my treatment, but it was pretty effective.  i got it as a xmas gift 2 years go w/ a 4 touch up package.  i lined up the last 3 touch ups to fall right before my wedding.  it worked out wonderfully.

(4) DO - try out different make up products that have received good reviews on PW and www.makeupalley.com.  i absolutely loved Lash Blast by Cover Girl.  it worked really well on my wedding day.  my lashes stood up all day and was very thick.  you don't have rely on only the products your makeup artist provides.  plus you can keep the products for touch ups throughout the day.

(5) DO - use oil blotters.  it was all i really needed besides lip stick to touch up my makeup.  i think i also just had an amazing make up artist to boot.

(6) DO - look into false eyelashes.  i highly recommend using shu uemera lashes.  some brides maybe hesitant that it looks too unnatural, but i have not seen one person regret it yet.  i really believe it makes everyone look really good.

(7) DO - try out spray tanning at least 2 months before the wedding if you had the farmer's tan like me.  i think for ppl with fairer skin you make look orange, but for ladies with dark skin like me and just need to even out..you should definitely try it out.  do a test run to find a good vendor than do the actually spray tan maybe 4 days in advance of your wedding.  it's super risky but it turned out well for me.

(8) DO - try out SPANDEX.  i didn't end up using mine, but have only heard good things about.

(9) DON'T - crash diet!!  start your workout routine and healthy eating habits as early as possible.  i recommended watermelon and slimfast in conjunction with you regular healthy meals.  it'll make you feel fuller longer and is very healthy.

(10) DON'T - this is a big one..don't do anything crazy with your skin care.  i used proactiv 2 weeks before my wedding and it completely dried it out.  with advice from other PW ladies i switched back to my regular skin care products.  proactiv worked really well for me in the past but i guess my skin changed and it reacted badly.  keep it basic if you can.  if you try something new do it much earlier on.