Hi I'm a newbie here. I have been lurking around on several different wedding forums and I think that the community here will be the best fit for me. I did not come across one mean member here or one drama filled thread which was the main selling point for me. This seems like a laid back positive community and I am happy to say that I am your newest member.

My SO and I are both Parapsychologists. We both thoroughly enjoy what we do and I particularly like the element of my job in that I am a perpetual student which is a requirement in our field. Our jobs are very rewarding and fulfilling to us but the salary is near non-existent which blows. That really is the only caveat of our field to me but with scientific progress comes understanding and acceptance and maybe someday a decent quality of life salary which would be nice. For the mean time we will just continue to toil away at our day jobs and play the lotto.

We met so many moons ago it truly feels like it was a lifetime. We had an instant connection something that I had never had with anyone else. For me it was love at first sight. He claims the same. We have shared the cliched ups and downs of everyday life and now we are going to share the bond of marriage.

We will be moving back to our native state this year and have decided to get married at the JOP there with only our immediate family members present. I do not have a date set at the moment. I tentatively added a date here. Our wedding will probably be best defined as offbeat and minimalistic.