Lets see: where to start..lol  My name is Tammy and I am 38 (oh gosh) [big sigh] will turn 39 in August.  Joe is 45.  We've been together for 6 1/2 years.  We have two kids together, joseph who is 5 and Autumn who is 4..and if your wondering-yes they are close in age..not even a year apart..it was hell!! lol  I have a 9 yr old son from a previous marriage and he has a 23 year old daughter.  This will be the third time for both of us.  The first time I got married I was right out of high school (18) boy was I dumb..The second time I was even dumber!! The best thing that came out of that was my son..

the ring:

I will post some pics of the kids when I download them from my camera..I do have baby pics but not recent ones..I'll have to put that on my TO DO list..

We are not doing the traditional wedding since we have started backwards..lol  Thought it was marriage-house and then kids..not kids-house-then marriage..lol

Anywho-we are having a hawaiian themed wedding.  Our colors are pink & green.

My bouquet:

BM's bouquets:

my daugher will be my fg and she will have a combo of my flowers in a basket like this one:

my youngest son will be the ring bearer and carry this pillow:

My oldest son will give me away since both my parents have passed..

I have looked and looked and finally found the dress of my dreams..Now the search is on since it's a Monique Luo dress and its discontinued but I have a yr until the wedding so I am not going to give up..I want it therefore I will get it!! (I hope) lol...

My Dress:

My shoes:

My other shoes:

My BM dresses:

girls shoes:

GM shirts N pants (and what my boys will wear):

the FG dress will be similar to this:

The look I am going for:

My ceremony site and reception site are at the same place...here it is:

another look..not sure if I want the reception indoors or out..