I am writing this after my wedding.  It is late, but I figure it is better late than never.  The wedding process can be quite hectic and though I had plans to document my planning process as it happened, that plan like many others fell of the rador.  I have no regrets about that because the number one lesson I learned during this process is that I will not be able to do everything that I plan, so I focused my energies on what really matters.  The final result of that is an unforgettable experience.  So forget about the perfect wedding, and focus on YOUR wedding. What really matters to you and your husband?  It is good practice for marriage.