About Weddings by Rev. Dr. Illana BergerWeddings by Rev. Dr. Illana Berger
Custom designed, Non-denominational Ceremonies
designed and performed with
Generosity, Grace, and Joy!
My services include
Creating and Officiating Ceremonies
Your wedding is a very special time. In every wedding I perform, your ideas, dreams and personal traditions are honored and woven into the ceremony we design together. I endeavor to design a ceremony that is meaningful, personal and inclusive of the elements that will make your wedding ceremony memorable to you, your family and friends.
I perform every ceremony as if it were the first, last and only ceremony I will ever perform. Every couple I serve deserves to have an extraordinary and memorable wedding that holds the space for the promises of love and commitment that you are making to one another.
It is an honor to be chosen by you to share in such an intimate moment. It is important for me to create a feeling of warmth, intimacy and enchantment! I will bring knowledge, inspiration and diverse ideas to the creation of your ceremony so it is a sincere expression of your unique relationship and the words spoken will reflect your style and what is in your hearts.
It is a matter of utmost respect and my heartfelt commitment to you that your ceremony is what you want. I begin by offering a complimentary, in person consultation to meet and connect and to begin to design your ideal wedding ceremony.
In this meeting I have 3 goals:
My first goal is for us to get to know each other and see if we connect: Your ceremony is one of the most significant moments in your life and it is important to have an officiant with whom you feel there is a connection, that you feel comfortable and safe with, and someone that cares about you.
My second goal is that we discuss your ceremony ideas: You may have many ideas, or none at all. You may have traditions or something you have seen someone else do; whatever it is I will take time to explore your personal feelings about the ceremony and together we will choose a direction and tone for your ceremony.
My third goal is to bring ceremony ideas for you to consider. Together we will find examples of material that will be appropriate for you which is a starting point in creating your ceremony and helping you to see what is possible. Often we discover together new ideas or directions that you may not have previously considered. At the end of this meeting you will have a very clear idea of what is possible and a feel for your wedding ceremony.
In addition to weddings I offer
Partnership Blessings, Commitment Ceremonies,
House Blessings, Young Adult Rites of Passage,
Premarital and Relationship Counseling
Vow Renewal, Family Blending Ceremonies
I serve the Bay Area and will travel to a bay area destination you choose!
I am a Multi-faith and Interfaith Minister, licensed to officiate weddings. The couples I work with are as diverse as our world is. Many are from different faith traditions, different cultures or just want to include diverse rituals in their ceremony. Most couples want to find a common spiritual foundation on which to celebrate this joyous life passage. You may find that you are simply looking for a unique, creative way to express your love for, and commitment to, one another. I partner with you to create a very personal and meaningful ceremony. Most of the ceremonies I officiate use little of the language, music, or visual symbols of a "traditional" wedding.
I work a great deal with same-gender couples and am honored to support this special and wonderful union and commitment. In all instances, I work together with you to craft a simple and beautiful ceremony which blends your vision with my expertise.
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