A Charming Backyard Wedding
Posted on October 12th, 2009 by Margaret. Filed under Real Weddings.
Today’s wedding inspiration comes from Natalie (also known in the PW community as Magnolia08). Natalie married her sweetheart Matt in a charming backyard wedding in the heart of Sonoma…
Some words from the glowing bride…
I have the tendency to obsess over details. And I was concerned that if I was too ambitious, I would lose myself in small details and not see the day for what it was: A public confirmation of love and commitment between my husband and me.
I wanted our day to be relaxed. And fun. And full of love. I wanted it to be a celebration of our family and friends who had come so far to share the day with us. I wanted it to feel more like a laid back family reunion than a wedding. I wanted people to feel at home.
My first choice would have been my parent’s backyard, but it just couldn’t accommodate a wedding. So I began combing rental listings in Sonoma, CA, just 45 minutes from where I grew up. The town itself exuded the atmosphere I was looking for: warm, gracious, uncomplicated. And then I found the perfect location. A newly renovated 150 year old home that dripped with charm, had an expansive backyard, an adorable barn and 6 bedrooms where my family could stay. It was perfect. And so stunning that I knew I wouldn’t need to obsess about any details to make our wedding day memorable.
And really, this house is what made my wedding special. We arrived 2 days before the wedding and almost immediately the house was filled with our guests, already in town for the weekend. People came. People went. They helped us set up chairs. They helped us move furniture. They cooked amazing breakfasts, lunches and dinners for whoever happened to be there at the time. It very quickly became home.
So when I think back to our wedding day, I think about how comfortable all our guests seemed to be, how relaxed everyone was, how easy it was to laugh and talk to all of our loved ones. I look back at our pictures and see all the smiling faces and I know that the very best decision we made was to pick a house that felt like home for our wedding.
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October 12th, 2009 at 6:15 am
oooh i’m a teensy bit obsessed with that cake!
October 12th, 2009 at 9:43 am
Love this backyard setting and adore the cake!
October 12th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
this is exactly what we would love to do but the area we want to do it in has a law that there can be no weddings on vacation rental properties and as we continue our search we keep running into property managers who laugh at the idea and turn us down… do you have any advice on twisting people’s arms into allowing this? i would love to hear from someone who has done it!!! beautiful wedding by the way… i love it :O)
October 13th, 2009 at 5:20 am
very lovely.
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