It’s all TMI!
Posted on July 27th, 2010 by Jeannie. Filed under Things we heart.
I am learning a very valuable lesson as I plan my wedding. I have shared photos with my friends and family of potential dresses, arrangements, invitations, decor, etc. and if I had to do it over again … I wouldn’t share ANYTHING! Mom doesn’t like the short dresses, soon-to-be mother-in-law doesn’t want the groom to wear a light suit, sister doesn’t get the rustic decor, brother is over the cupcake dessert table … the next time anyone asks me anything, I am just going to tell them it’s a big surprise and they’ll just have to wait for the day. My advice to anyone getting ready to wed is to share the least amount of information possible. Plan your event the way you want and tell them NOTHING 
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July 27th, 2010 at 12:03 pm
Amen to that!!
July 27th, 2010 at 12:32 pm
ACK!! I agree. Too many opinions is a bad thing. Just do whatever you want!!
July 27th, 2010 at 1:19 pm
haha this is SO true! love this post. excellent bridal advice!
July 27th, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Nice Photos!!!
July 27th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
Amen sister!
July 27th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Grooms everywhere wholeheartedly agree.
July 27th, 2010 at 7:07 pm
SERIOUSLY! I’ve taken to saying “you’ll see at the wedding”. My fiance too.
July 27th, 2010 at 7:14 pm
With you! My best friend said to the colors “Wait, you mean together?”. Um, yes I do.
July 27th, 2010 at 8:20 pm
Couldn’t agree with you more! But a word of advice, be honest with any well meaning enquirers in a way that nicely tells them to back off.
I clammed up and stopped sharing information for that same reason, but then got in trouble with my mum about her perceived ‘lack’ of planning. You can’t win!
July 27th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
Why do people do this?
It’s your wedding. Your expression of love. Why on earth other people think they have ownership over that is beyond me. Go with what you and your fiance want and BAH! to anyone else!
July 28th, 2010 at 2:38 am
Tooooooo true!! lol
July 28th, 2010 at 8:19 am
Goooo Jeannie! yay! I love it.
July 28th, 2010 at 8:48 am
Could not agree more!!!
July 29th, 2010 at 2:11 pm
Haha! This is sooooo true! I know my Mom felt really left out of it for most of the planning b/c after a few disastrous attempts at brainstorming which left me feeling tattered, I got quiet fast. Now, 2 weeks out, she’s back to gung-ho mode and I can just hand her something and she’ll do it. Four months ago I would have gotten, “Are you sure you don’t mind having tattered edges on these flags?” to “No problem!”
July 30th, 2010 at 10:33 pm
You shouldn’t have to compromise regardless. It’s your wedding; not theirs.
August 1st, 2010 at 11:06 pm
that’s what i’m quickly learning!!
August 2nd, 2010 at 8:25 pm
Ugh, how I wish that were true. I’ve shared little about our wedding…and now I have a million people hounding me about what it will be like.
Does no one like surprises?? Does no one trust us to plan this thing?? (Both my fiance and I do types of event planning in our respective careers, so it’s not like either of us are coming at this thing from scratch!) Sheesh!
September 3rd, 2010 at 1:11 am
I am excited about the dinner overlooking the ocean, which is surrounded by tiki torches! It looks very beautiful and oh so romantic.Does no one like surprises?? Does no one trust us to plan this thing?? (Both my fiance and I do types of event planning in our respective careers, so it’s not like either of us are coming at this thing from
October 5th, 2010 at 8:02 am
I am learning a very valuable lesson as I plan my wedding. I have shared photos with my friends and family of potential dresses, arrangements, invitations, decor, etc. and if I had to do it over again … I wouldn’t share ANYTHING! Mom doesn’t like the short dresses, soon-to-be mother
October 18th, 2010 at 2:23 am
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November 22nd, 2010 at 4:29 pm
Ihr Text ist eine Quelle für die Anreicherung von mir, mit einem Thema, das mich wirklich interessieren und den Inhalt informiert werden unterstützt.
January 9th, 2011 at 5:24 am
test it out for yourself, you should be qualified to easily arbitrate whether or not this is current to be the honourable fitness auto for you