Jan 09, 2012


{ New Chapter }

As you may, or may not, know, I called off my wedding on October 14, 2009.

I am officially single, and we have no plans of getting back together. 

Shortly after breaking up, I learned 2 weeks after we broke up he took another girl island hopping.  I'm thinking with his half of the money we had saved up for the wedding.  I also learned a month after we broke up, he had a new girlfriend.  Lastly, I learned he had been cheating on my for a while prior to breaking up.  The disgusting part, he still tells me that come July, when he graduates from the police academy, he is leaving his girlfriend and will do whatever it takes to get me back, even if that means coming between me and a significant other (if there is one). Barf.

We live, we learn, we move on.

This was a very very tough thing for me to overcome, but I'm in a good place now.  It took a lot for me to pick up the pieces and start new.  I have made it a point to keep all things toxic out of my life (minus my vices of course). 

Thank you ladies for always being there for me and giving me emotional support, a shoulder to cry on, and a ear to lend my words to.

You truly are all appreciated.  I'll make it a point to come on PW more, I missed you all so much.


(25) Comments

Hey hun....yeah, I agree with all of these other women on here....you were way to good for him and what goes around comes around. He will get his and you will find your prince charming :) In the meanwhile, be single and have fun. I was single with 2 kids for 7 yrs until I met my fiance, so he is out there, trust me! 

I'm so glad to hear that you're happy.  You are obviously WAAAAAY better off without that loser!  I'm happy for you!!!

Wow!  Just read your story.  It's mine of 4 years ago almost exactly...right down to the new girlfriend, cheating, and mine was a police officer also.  Good riddens!

omg im so sorry to read this i was looking for u omg im so sad idk what to sa i hope u are ok