Apr 24, 2015

My FI and I have both been married before and have 3 kids total. I am so thankful to have finally met the love of my life. We want a destination wedding that is fun, memorable, romantic and sets the tone for our amazing marriage to come!

Starting off on the wrong foot?

Well, the plan was to get married in August of 2014.  Since it is now October of 2013 and I haven't even picked a venue, we decided this weekend that we need to push the date back :(.  I know that it is my fault, I really haven't done anything concrete.  I haven't even tried on a single dress.  I'm not sure what exactly is holding me back, I am so excited to marry my FI!  I think I might still be haunted by my first wedding almost 20 years ago......  I didn't get anything I wanted, I settled on everything.  I am so afraid that I will end up doing that again that I can't seem to finalize any decision at all!  We know what we want, I have done tons of research, I just need to make a choice and then go with it.  We decided yesterday that April of 2015 would be a good time for the wedding, after the holidays but before the summer heat.  I have been researching mostly Riviera Maya, Mexico resorts as they seem to offer the best options for us since we have to bring all 3 kids.  I hope this feeling of anxiety at every little decision calms down...... It's time to put on my big girl pants and get to planning!!!

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Thank you Uhlease! I am making progress, it's so wonderful that everyone here is so supportive. It's tough to find that with friends and family who all seem to have very strong opinions about a wedding that isn't theirs. :)
I hope you've finalized some plans :) I saw your post about your dress-this is why it's so important for you to pick things that YOU absolutely love!! Us girls care way more about these things than the guys do, so good luck with planning! Mexico would be perfect!!