19 days to go and the sleepless nights have started..

Where has the time gone?!?!? Our wedding is only 19 days away!! I am starting to not sleep as well at night just thinking about everything that needs to get done and how everything will play out the day of. It's hard because FI is just excited because all he really has to do is show up and I'm a nervous wreck because I'm the one doing all of the planning and having to make sure everything runs smoothly. Any advice on this one? Did anyone else feel the same way?

Posted on July 8, 2013 at 4:51 pm
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Honey, it happens. You may plan for 2 years at a stretch, and at the last minute, you start second-guessing yourself. Someone I know even started freaking out at if she really wanted to marry the groom, funny enough.


But this is not the time to fret, because any slight worry now could make you break out in zits (gasp!!) and trust me, you dont need that. Now is the time to start delegating stuff to people if you can, I mean last minute stuff, and by now, you should be crossing out the remaining stuff on your checklist.


Try and relax. As the days go by, you will see more things that need to be done, that have not been done, you may want to change your mind on some stuff, even on the day of, you may see things that are not going according to the way you planned it, its all normal. Ask anyone who has passed through this stage. Just know that all the major stuff that need to be done, you have done them, and you just need to enjoy the implementation of all your planning. 


Get some sleep. I cant say this enough, you need to look radiant for your pictures, so relax, take lots of water, visit a spa, take some me-time, whatever it will take to make you relax and get some rest. You will be fine.


Goodluck.

Posted on July 8, 2013 at 8:44 pm
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Ugh, I know I'm going to be the same way girl. I have sleeping issues as it is (especially on Sunday nights). I can never sleep when I have something important or exciting to do the next day!


I didn't sleep one wink when I was my best friend's MOH!!! I'm going to have to go to the doctor soon and see if they'll prescribe me some sleep meds and some anti-anxiety meds because I know I'll be a nervous wreck those 2 weeks before my wedding!


I have 130 days to go as of today...eeeeekkkk!!! :D Good luck girl!!! ♥ Go buy Advil PM and/or Unisom for the sleepless nights.

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 2:02 am
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I don't have any good words of advice besides try not to stress about it. But that's the obvious advice isn't  it? lol. Everything will work out fine and the last thing you want is dark under eye circles so def relax!! 

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 4:11 am
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Ditto mrswolters...tylenol or advil pm :)

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 4:12 am
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Awww it will all be okay.  I know how stressed you must feel because I know I am going to be the same way.


But here is a little something to keep in mind.  I am not sure of the source since I came across it on the internet and then added a few words of our own.  We are planning to have it on our tables at the reception.


What will matter most is not the shoes, the dress, the flowers, the cake or assorted odds and ends but the love and light from the people who are here to share and start this journey with us.  Thank you for joining us today!  We hope that you laugh, dance, share old memories, and make a few new ones to take with you.


Breathe girl.  It's about the celebration of your love! It will all work out!

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 5:19 am
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19 days, and just try not to stress/worry about it. Everything will turn out just fine. You are just letting yourself over think everything and when you do that you start to forget somethings. Just take a deep breath and let it all fall into place!


and maybe try mrswolters idea ;)

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 6:25 am
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Breath. It will all work out beautifully in the end. Try not to stress and get some well needed rest!

Posted on July 11, 2013 at 8:38 am
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yay!!! congrats :-) BREATHE!!

Posted on July 11, 2013 at 8:48 am

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