Thanks Michelle for chiming in. I never figured out the whole charting thing! Tovaqt---I put my update on the update thread. I'm not feeling good about this month but I'm testing Sunday/Monday. FX to all and baby dust!
Hey Tovaqt---how are you feeling? It's 12dpo, right? :)
Keeping my FX. I know how much it sucks when you can't just wait for AF to show and have to deal with a potential BFN. We're here for you...
FX crossed for you! Go test! I am feeling good things for you! =)
Oh honey. I'm so sorry. I know that there is absolutely nothing that I can say right now to make it even a tiny little bit better but know that we are all here for you. This is the the worst road to be on-long, tiring, frustrating and just plain MEAN. It is just so unfair how hard you are trying for a baby. It is to be the worst and most frustrating feeling ever. Yesterday was 13dpo? I know that it is impossible to think this way but just remember that you aren't out yet. I still have faith that clomid is going to work for you. Big hugs and I'm thinking about you. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk....
I'm so sorry! I completely second what Mikesgirl says! Your still not out of the running yet! Are you going in for a beta test or maybe wait 3 more days and test again. I am still feeling good this month for us all! I'm here for you if you want to talk too ((HUGS))
I'm so sorry. You have absolutely every right to be in a bad place today! We can't be expected to get such depressing news and just move right on! Don't punish yourself. Take a few days to be sad, mad, discouraged, frustrated, etc. Spend some time in bed. This ride is long and really bumpy. You need to give yourself some time to heal. I do find that a glass of wine and a cupcake and a snuggle with my puppy really help :)
I can totally relate to the way that you're feeling. My husband is an attorney and represents kids in custody, divorce, neglect, etc. cases. I can't help but wonder how these families can have so many, often unwanted, children and my DH and I can't even have one - and that one would be so wanted. It's enough to make anyone and everyone bitter and resentful. It's OK. You can't beat yourself up about it. Some days and some months are just going to be harder.
Try to take a day or two to heal and see about that last batch of clomid. Keep us posted and we're there for you.
I completely understand! We all do! You should 100% take a pity day or week. This is a really hard process. I have completely pulled away from my cousins who are pregnant (we started trying the same time and 1 has a baby and the other is any day) I just can't listen to them and etc when I want that so bad myself. Since you guys always give me this advise ill say it back =) - It will happen and one day this will all be behind us and we will have our families, its just going to take us a little longer. Until then 'We Are Here For You!'
p.s. DH and I joke all the time about when our kids ask "where do babies come from?" We will say "well you came from basel body temps, clomid, injections, needles, ultrasounds, blood work and lots and lots of prayers" =) Something to look forward to
LOL Artlvr!!! I am sad that my BFP (that WILL come one day!) will not be a surprise. I wish we could have just stopped BC and then said 'let's have fun and see what happens.' But unfortunatlely - like you said, it will be meds and monitoring to make it happen for us.
It will all be worth it in the end... I just know it :)