A BRIDEZILLA..I am not trying to be

Ok sooooo if you are my friend on PW, you have seen my bio and the dresses that I have in mind for my bridesmaids.. Back in July, I explained everything I wanted in the design for the girls' dresses. I think because it was so in advance, she didn't really listen to what I wanted her to do. I took it a step further and I printed an example of the dress and the style i wanted the shoulder strap to be.. I told her I wanted all the dresses done by November. I gave her this month because i wanted her to do my sister's (MOH) dress next.. Early this month, I asked her if she can start on one of the dresses so that I can see if she did it the way i wanted it to be.. She tells me she will have the first dress done by the end of the month. I'm like ok cool!! I was even happier when she told me that she was done with two of the dresses last weekend.. I ask her to send me a pic of one of the dresses because i wasn't able to get there in the next couple of days.. She sends me the pic and the dress is not in the style i wanted! the dress is supposed to be one strap but the top is supposed to kind of be bunched up so the bigger top girls can feel comfortable and not think about their stuff showing at the side with no strap.. THE DRESS LOOKS LIKE A STRAPLESS DRESS W A RUFFLE AT THE SIDE! I was at a concert when i saw the pic so i wasnt going to dwell on it too much but my goodness! the bottom looked ok. it looks like it was an A line dress so i wasn't worried.. the top is what i have an issue with. AND SHE MADE FOUR ALREADY WHEN I SAID JUST MAKE ONE SO I CAN TAKE A LOOK AT IT! See everyone is thinking i am crazy cuz i started everything early but look what happens! things dont go right so i am not mad because we have time but goodness! this is not good! now when i called her and told her exactly what i wanted (AGAIN), she asks me if I want her to do the rest of the dresses like that.. in my head i wanted to say "DO THEM FOUR OVER FIRST!" see if the dresses she did already was for the smaller top girls i wouldnt be mad cuz it would look better on them but she chose to do the bigger top people's dress first -____- i am not happy at all so i deleted the picture she sent me. I am going with my mom tomorrow to look at the dress in person... I CANNNT!!! yours truly, Not-Trying-To-Be-A-Bridezilla
Posted on October 29, 2013 at 12:04 pm
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 The fact that you haven't freaked out on her shows that you aren't a bridezilla xxx

I hope the photo was just not showing the dress properly and everyone is just how you want it, but like you said at least you have time to get them sorted out. Good luck xx

Posted on October 30, 2013 at 9:37 am
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I would be mad too. You are calmer than I would be. I hope it all works out
Posted on October 30, 2013 at 9:44 pm
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 It's fine...you're allowed!

Keep us posted on wht happens please..........

Posted on November 1, 2013 at 4:51 pm

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