Am I CRAZY?

As most of you know my wedding is off and Byron and I are no longer together. I found out he was cheating and had been for awhile. I allowed myself to ignore many warning signs but I guess love is blind.

In the last few weeks  I have reconnected with an old friend. At one time we were very very close and cared about each other very much but I moved away. He has asked me out and my mind says it's too soon and what will people say but my heart says I have nothing to lose and this is a man that I once cared alot about.

Am I crazy for even considering this after I was just planning a wedding with someone else?

 

Posted on August 28, 2014 at 10:50 pm
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Canooknic
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 There nothing wrong with catching up with someone, it doesn't have to mean anything.

If you do see a future in it just take it slow, try not to let your past affect your future, and most importantly have some fun!!!

Posted on August 28, 2014 at 11:17 pm
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 Agreed with Canooknic, and don't worry about what other people think, do, or say. Talk is cheap and opinions are like *ahem* a certain body part, everyone has one!  Just do what makes you happy!

Posted on August 29, 2014 at 6:20 am
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 I agree with the ladies.  I would take it slow but don't pass up the opportunity.  You have to allow yourself some time to heal but again don't let too much time pass in between.

I'm sorry you are going through this.

Posted on August 29, 2014 at 11:13 am
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I dont think there is anything wrong with it. You have a right to be happy, you didnt do anything wrong in the relationship so it doesnt matter what other people will think. Take it slow but dont let it pass you by. You deserve to be happy and I think a lot of others would agree. Best of luck!!
Posted on September 2, 2014 at 7:33 pm
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 The saying saies The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new relationship!So I think it is nothing wrong!However,you should be sure that you have feelings for him!

Posted on September 2, 2014 at 9:53 pm
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Thank you ladies. After several days of thinking I have agreed to go out with him. We met at a mall to spend the day together. After about 20 minutes he kept looking around and I was trying to figure ou what he was doing. Next thing I know he was pulling me into a game area with arcade games. He looked around to make sure no one was there and he kissed me. It really took me back because I wasn't sure what I was feeling was real. It was that moment when you just say WOW. It was like time stood still. One of those moments you only see in movies or only hear about but never happen to you.  We were best friends at one time until we lost touch. He reminded me of the time we use to say we were too perfect for each other and tha's why we were always just friends. We even use to tell each other "I love you."

It scares me that we might lose an amazing friendship if it doesn't work out but my heart tells me to go for while my mind is telling me no. He tells me we have nothing to lose and so much to gain and I do believe that's true. The best rellationships come from people who were friends first.  So we are going to start seeing each other when we can because we live 2 1/2 hours apart.

Posted on September 3, 2014 at 1:12 am
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 Aww I'm glad you're having fun!

Posted on September 3, 2014 at 6:38 am
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 So pleased for you!!

DH and I were best friends for about 3 years before we got together. All our friends kept saying we'd make a great couple and we always said we had too much of a good thing to risk - 8 years later and 2 gorgeous babies we are happier than ever!

I hope you have the same luck and happiness as we do - you really deserve it xx

Posted on September 3, 2014 at 6:22 pm
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 Awesome! I'm glad to hear it all worked out for you. Just remember that a lot of the best marriages in the world come from two people who were best friends before they became lovers. FH and I started off as the best of friends, and because of our pasts, both of us were afraid to get romantically involved. I'm glad we did take the chance, because I can't see myself with anyone else for the rest of my life.

Posted on September 4, 2014 at 1:54 pm
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Posted on September 5, 2014 at 4:06 am
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 I think I can't say anything that the ladies haven't already said!! Ditto!

Posted on September 5, 2014 at 9:45 am
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Me and my FI dated 3 years 1500 miles apart and were friends for a year before that. I think the distance will allow you that chance and time to get to know each other again. People do change over time but it's not always a bad thing. This way you get to heal whole experiencing something good at the same time. I wish you all the best!
Posted on September 6, 2014 at 8:15 am
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 I don't think it's to soon. Go outwith this guy and have a blast it doesn't have to me on a romantic level! 

Posted on September 7, 2014 at 9:46 pm

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