another ex issue
first some background story:
i had an EX bf who was a little physically abusive, along with cheated on me with approx 12-15 girls. it was the shittiest of shitty situations and i was totally unaware. well afterwards i was little messed up in the head (cut me a break!!) and dated several guys at once. and i say dated loosely, like would go to out to dinner or just hang, not like exclusively date each of them! danny (fiance) was even one of them! but it was really very not serious at this stage of my life. well, there was another guy i casually dated, but it started to turn into something pretty serious. i didn't want a relationship but REALLY liked this guy, so i started to let the walls down a little. well, my abusive cheatin ex started calling him and threatening him and making up such horrible things about me. i told my guy about all this in the beginning, but it just came down to he didn't want a relationship that came with so much baggage, which honestly i can't blame him. so i was upset, but not crushed, cuz like i said i didn't want that serious relationship.
well now three years later danny and i are engaged and happier than ever!! i've kinda kept in touch with this guy throughout the years cause we were really really close. well he got engaged, so i sent him a text saying congrats...and he starts gushing about how he wishes it was me!! that he wishes he could change everything and never let me go. that he LOVES ME (yes he said that...i almost shit myself) and would do anything for one more chance. this guy just got engaged YESTERDAY.
i'm just dumbfounded. and shan's post about facebook and ex's really convinced me to get this off my chest. how freakin ridiculous. its like....well why the F did you just get engaged?!?!?!
whew, i feel better.