Another failure

this is my 2nd blighted ovum....my levels even got to almost 10,000....but when I went for my first ultrasound I was measuring 2 weeks behind where I knew I should be, since I was temping and doing OPK's....then my follow up ultrasound this Tues showed no growth and no heartbeat...just empty sac... I can't even take the meds to pass until Wed of next week due to travel plans :(

We hadn't told anybody either....will be a tough Christmas :(

I'm starting to think maybe it's just not meant to be for us...
Posted on December 22, 2011 at 7:30 am
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Oh Jackie my heart is breaking for you! I am so sorry! I know you must be feeling so devastated right now. It will happen! You will be a mommy! Try to enjoy your time with your family and lean on your DH. Do not give up hope! If you ever want to talk please pm me anytime! I'm thinking about you!
Posted on December 22, 2011 at 9:27 am
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Posted on December 22, 2011 at 10:04 am
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I'm so sorry Jackie :o(

Posted on December 22, 2011 at 1:37 pm
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Jackie--words can't express how sorry I am for you and your DH. You two have been through so much. This process can be so cruel. I will be thinking of you....
Posted on December 22, 2011 at 3:34 pm
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Oh Jackie my heart just breaks for you hun :( There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for you loss. Sending many prayers for you and DH during this difficult time!

Posted on December 28, 2011 at 1:42 am
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Thanks everybody....I really appreciate you all taking the time to write.

Well, it's all passed now...the nurse is supposed to call me today...and I will have a follow-up u/s to make sure everything is out.

Don't know what's next for us....part of me says try again....part of me doesn't have the heart to :(
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Posted on December 29, 2011 at 6:16 am
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Common sense says take time off...and the dr will want us to wait one cycle at least...but the 40yr old in me says there's no time to waste if we are going to try again... *sigh*
Posted on December 29, 2011 at 6:21 am
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Posted on December 29, 2011 at 6:45 am
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Thanks Tami....I didn't take any offense to what you wrote :)
Posted on December 29, 2011 at 6:54 am
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so sorry jackie...

Posted on January 2, 2012 at 9:09 am
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Jackie - I just saw this thread and I'm so so sorry to hear that you too have suffered a miscarriage.  It's just not fair.  *hugs*  I think you should take some time to grieve and find some measure of peace in yourself before you try again.  For me it was an easy decision that has come with moments of "am I sure I want to do this AGAIN?", but I also think that my mc coming so soon made it somewhat easier then this probably is for you.  I just want you to know that I'm thinking and praying for you and your OH and we'll be here supporting you whatever decision you make.  


*hugs hugs hugs*

Posted on January 3, 2012 at 3:21 am

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