Are you indulging or holding out?

TGIF ladies!

When a friend of mine got engaged, she and her FI decided to not have sex 6months before the wedding. I guess to make it special and for religious reasons.

I thought about it and asked FI, to which he laughed, but hey....

 

Whate are you ladies doing? indulging or holding out? Why was it impt to you?

 

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 10:09 am
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Uhlease
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 We did not hold out. I had always thought that would be cool. Like a month or so, but honestly the guys are never up for that. lol. And I don't think it makes the wedding night that much more special-I think it's special either way :)

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 11:35 am
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We are not holding out. We have talked about holding out a month before but not sure I can lol.
Posted on March 21, 2014 at 12:58 pm
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 Yes Elise I think you are right.  I would like to hold out for at least a week or so but I'm not sure if we would be able to that but it's worth a shot :) 

I know any time we are unable to do so for more than a few days we are all over each other and I miss him so much within that time frame that for me it makes it more intimate but I agree with Elise in that it is special either way.

 

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 12:58 pm
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 we were both virgins.  we did save it for religous reasons.  it is so special to know that we are the only people we have been with.  it does make the honeymoon and wedding night more special.  and just in case you are wondering not all couples who wait have sex on their wedding night.  i know a couple that had had a really stressful time planning their wedding.  they were both really releaved the wedding was done and tired.  so they took a bath together and cuddled all night.  she said it was the most romantic thing he has ever done for her.

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 7:39 pm
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 We have children together so we regularly go for periods without sex!!! Lol

We had a lot of house guests in the lead up to the wedding (and straight after the wedding!) - so unintentionally went without sex for a couple of weeks before and we didn't actually get to consummate our marriage until about 3 weeks later!!!!

Really not great planning on our part!! 

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 9:11 pm
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sounds very special krosa.

i just hope I dont have my lovely aunt during my wedding...that's the only thing that will stop the show! lol

i'm gonna try to hold out 2wks before Hahaha

Posted on March 21, 2014 at 11:10 pm

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