AW: Bachelorette party tomorrow!!
I am finally excited about it.. but bummed at the same time.
I'm trying to keep this long story short: My one MOH is only 18, so we planned a spa day and dinner so that she could be included and then the rest of us were going to go out to do the bar scene at night. This was planned and discussed for months. Then last week she tells me she's not coming because she doesn't feel like it's worth it because me and her won't even get to spend that much time together and she really doesn't like spas and people touching her. I am super bummed because she never once said this. I would've never asked all my other girls to pay for the spa if I knew this was the case -- it was planned basically so that SHE was included. I would've done something else. Idk, I feel like it's very selfish on her part -- and this is me always dealing with her.. everything is always about her. I flat out told her that I was hurt over it, but she still is sticking by her response... I guess I am just a totally different person. As a BM, I would suck it up and do what would make the bride happy, and yet she's a MOH. So, whatever, I'm done with that.
Anyways, a few more people backed out too because of other things that came up for them. It'll just be me, my other MOH, my mom and future MIL, my two BMs, FI's brother's GF, and one of my other friends. I am really hoping it's a great time and everyone is ready to party!