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Do you invite the baby mama to the wedding? (Her kids are in the wedding) No I don't have a relationship with her, I barely talk to her!

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 5:56 am
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mahoganieyes
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Don't do it then! No relationship with her, then you don't know how she will react. Did you ask your fi?

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 6:10 am
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Don't do it! You want people to be there who are joyous for you and your husband to be not some random girl who is thinking bad thoughts while you're getting married. You may think that it's showing the kids that everything is okay but in actuality there's really no difference! Please reconsider, I know I did!

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 6:12 am
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heck to the no!


if you don't talk to her no need to bother.  you and your FI are moving forward so it is no need to bring the past into your future.  it shouldn't even be an option, unless you were actual friends with her.

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 6:32 am
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I did.  Both my ex husband and his wife and also my ex's baby mama.  Neither came but they cant say they werent invited.  I was sure baby mama was going to come and show her a**

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 6:41 am
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Well my fiance' asked me if she was invited, my first reaction was NO!  I find it awkward because when she found out we were engaged she asked him why me and not her?  Hmmm! To me red lights started to flash! 

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 7:22 am
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Heck no! why me and not her? Enough said, don't bother! She sounds jealous.

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 7:34 am
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I actually brought the idea up to FH and he quickly declined. He said that she wasnt worth the expense or the hassle of dealing with. So I guess he would know better than I would so she was NOT included on our guest list. Looking back, I dont think I'd want to spend the $104 for her plate of food anyhow.

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 8:36 am
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Since you're not close to her then I don't see why she needs to be included. Also as someone mentioned, based on her comment to your FI, she's probably resentful of you. You don't need any negative energy on your special day!

Posted on March 26, 2010 at 12:56 pm
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NO!!!! According to Regal: you dont need that negativity on that day!

Posted on March 27, 2010 at 9:46 am
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Noooo ma'am! lol ;)

Posted on March 27, 2010 at 11:35 am
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Im just saying if your adult enough to marry a man that has a baby momma then you are adult enough to have her at the wedding her children are in the ceremony! Your going to be a parent now so act like it!

Posted on March 27, 2010 at 6:38 pm
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NO!....my step son was in the wedding but his mom was not invited. We get along pretty well and her family is great but no need for her to be at our wedding. That's just awkward.

Posted on March 28, 2010 at 3:22 am
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Its all about the comfort level........ If you and the Ex Baby Mama are cool as hell than yes you should invite her, BUT if it will bring some mad tension to your day, almost to the point you think she may ruin it don't invite her.


Just because she shares a child with your future hubby doesn't mean she has to share your day of commitment with you. And if the child is in the wedding I'm pretty sure someone from his side of the family can be the caretaker for the day.

Posted on March 28, 2010 at 7:38 pm
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Just because she shares a child with your future hubby doesn't mean she has to share your day of commitment with you.


Very well said October! This is what I had to come to terms with! Your wedding is going to happen whether she's there or not... so why not just skip the tension, the side-eyes, and akward whispering that's going to go on even if it's not from the two of you everyone else will be doing it. It's your day and nothing should distract you on that day!

Posted on March 29, 2010 at 4:12 am
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I think Melly1588 stated it perfectly. That's our situation.

Posted on March 29, 2010 at 4:37 am
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You can as a nice gesture,but not if you are not close unless you just want her to be able to see her child/children.

Posted on April 6, 2010 at 5:10 pm
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Hell No !!! Thats y im not.

Posted on September 5, 2010 at 4:07 pm
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No I won't invite her if you don't have a relationship with her....it is your day and you don't want no drama...plus it might feel kinda of awkward for hubby to see his ex at his wedding...NO EXs AT THE WEDDING!!!!!

Posted on September 9, 2010 at 8:02 am
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NOPE!

Posted on September 11, 2010 at 7:10 am
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OM she asked why me and not her? oh hellllll no.


I dont converse at all with fh baby momma, i have tried but i cant speak donkey

Posted on September 15, 2010 at 5:05 am
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