Do you invite the baby mama to the wedding? (Her kids are in the wedding) No I don't have a relationship with her, I barely talk to her!
I was considering it but then...
in the words of FI "The b#$%#!$ gets no compassion from me"
Hmmm...very interesting. I too have a baby mama in my life. It's funny but while we were dating we had very little drama; even had his daughter coming over on the weekends to spend the night. But as soon as we announced our engagement and told his daughter that we wanted her to be in the wedding and be involved in the ceremony her 'MAMA' put an end to all that!! She told the poor thing that she could not be in the wedding and the child was so dejected. She was really looking forward to it. When my hubby spoke with his "X' and she stated that it was not her call and it was up to her daughter; after all it was my hubby and his daughters relationship...well you can't un-ring the bell...can you?
She's a real Pyscho. So needless to say his child did not even attend the wedding. Let's all say a prayer for the X's and the baby mama's. Repeat after me; Lord...please help them to focus on the children and put their petty differences aside...Lord help them to see that they are not hurting "him;" but hurting the child...OH...and Lord please help the little one's and continue to strenghten their relationships with their fathers. In Jesus name....Amen!!
I say 'NO'!!!! I'm not inviting my FH's "X" especially since she invited herself to our son's 1st birthday party. She brought their daughter and stayed for a few hours. I was sooooo pissed off. Especially since I've heard that she brings up my name on the regular. The funny part is I've never said more than hello to her. I told FH to handle it and let her no she is not invited to the wedding and will be turned away at the door if she tries to come.
Nope. Especially if you don't have a relationship with her. And sending an invite wouldn't be sincere
I told FI that I didn't mind and it would probably would be good so that she could dress her daughter and be available to carry her home after the reception so that the responsibility didn't fall on anyone else.
NOOOO!! Especially if you don't have a relationship with her! NEGATIVE!
I did, we dont have drama though.. I did find out she was jealous after the fact.. But she came saw how beautiful the girls looked and cried..
NOOOOOO, HELL NO, AND MORE NO ESPECIALLY WITH THAT COMMENT WHAT THE HELL WAS BABYMOM THINKING SHE NEED NOT BE PRESENT
this is a dilema i'm dealing with now! my 4 yr old soon to be step daughter is in the wedding bout we are unsure if her mother will even let her be in the wedding! she refuses to let her come around because of me which makes him soo upset...idk what to to...
helllllllllllllllllllllll noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo dont do it!!!!!
lollll i say nope againnnn his bb mama almost broke us up!!! but we were stronger than that sooooo please!!! especially since u have no relationship !!!! one more time hellllllll noooo
i wouldn't invite her especially if you have no relationship with her. its not like you need her there to watch the kids. and do you really want those daggers shooting out of her eyes at you??lol. she may cough real loud when they ask the "does anyone here see just cause why...." question.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH i love this post...I ONLY respect her because he and FI have kids together but we do not get along...she is invited to the weddin LOL because her kids are in the weddin, but she is not invited to the reception!!
Lol @ mrspadgett2011 what if she just pops up at the reception? Are you having like ushers at the door and a name list?
If you don't get along with her, don't invite her. I didn't invite my husband children mother. The kids were in the wedding, but she was no where around... whew... :)
I loved this post. Can you guys believe that my fi's ex wife/baby motha asked if she was invited to ours?????lol whaaaaaaaaaaaat? I do not even talk to her. smh Chicks these days. smh
cant stop laughing!!