Back door ok or no for you?

I feel weird talking about this but do you and FI/DH have anal?  My DH has been slightly obsessed with this since we met and I have tried and tried but end up crying every time.  Then a couple weeks ago, we got a shipment in the mail with butt plugs in three sizes and anal lube with numbing agent(we had gotten super smashed a week before and had apparently ordered these things, lol).  So, we used them and it worked!  DH was super happy and I didn't feel the pain thanks to the lube.  What are your experiences with this?

Posted on August 18, 2010 at 6:56 pm
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what kinda lube was that , i feel weird even talkin about it, but tried with no sucess

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 4:00 am
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Uhm....we tried for one winter weekend (anyone in Illinois knows in winter sex is about the only thing you WANT to do) and I didn't like the feeling nor the after affect of feeling like I had to poop all day (sorry)


He really wants to just "Do It" but as I told him you let me stick you and you can stick me....lol. that settles that argument.


 


But seriously what type of lube is that? I need to get some.

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 6:09 am
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LOL!  We have and Im not a huge fan but FI loves it! Guys r weird.  There is a lube called anal ease.  It pretty much numbs you.

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 6:13 am
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Yeah we used that and it didn't work....it was probably moreso me because I am so overanalytical of anything and everything. I told him we have to swipe some stuff from the doctor and numb my whole lower half, lol

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 6:16 am
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Tried it, not for me.  Luckily my FI is fine with it, my ex-bf was obsessed with it and it was just eh.  For guys getting anal feels good because of their prostate - we don't have one, so there's really nothing being stimulated back there.  If it felt awesome I wouldn't mind it, but it was just eh - I'd rather read a book or clean or something!  :) 

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 11:26 am
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Never tried and i dont think i ever will either.

Posted on August 19, 2010 at 11:43 am
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Been there, done that, hated it!   DH sometimes sticks me there "by accident" when we are DTD, and I just wanna punch him when he does cause its not a nice feeling.  Some women find it pleasureable, but to me its just an exit not an entrance :)

Posted on August 20, 2010 at 1:30 am
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FH is obessed with the anal region period and still tries to this day to get me into that. Im not into it though. Feels quite frankly like im constipated and that is just not sexy.


Hopefully he will get over this.

Posted on August 20, 2010 at 1:03 pm
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yes we have... i was not a big fan, DH loves it... wish we had the numbing lube lol

Posted on August 20, 2010 at 8:46 pm
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We do not do it. I can not. It feels weird to me. Lol!

Posted on August 21, 2010 at 6:06 am
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We have before. I can't anymore because, ewww, when I had my son, the doctor sewed me up too tight! So it's physically not an option anymore!

Posted on August 21, 2010 at 9:45 am
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We tried once and it was not something I am into. I don't get why some guys are obsessed with it. It just made me feel like I had to go to the bathroom.

Posted on August 21, 2010 at 10:48 am
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this was the topic at girls night an then one of our guy friends showed up an my friend had the nerve to ask him. he says its the taboo factor that makes it so appealing 


 

Posted on August 23, 2010 at 2:11 am
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Yea I think most guys are obsessed with it, my DH included. I make excuses all the time....I ate too much...my stomach hurts....but every once in awhile I give in just to shut him up.

Posted on August 23, 2010 at 5:26 am
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We tried... unsuccessfully. He's been well-blessed in his manhood and there wasn't any way that huge THING was getting into my little ( * ). He says he still wants to try it, but I can't imagine how it's going to work. Numbing lube might be an option.

Posted on August 23, 2010 at 9:45 am
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FI has a thing about it too and the idea is not a problem for me, but my insides seem to be funnily configured or something, so it takes a lot of patience. I once had a medical camera stuck up there and it took the assistant forever to get the thing around the first corner. The doctor then took over and shoved it in. Needless to say, I screamed and while I like a little bit of pain, this was not something I'd like to feel again for pleasure. Besides, it doesn't stimulate anything, so I might as well be doing something else. And yes, it makes me feel like I need to #2. I'd like to try numbing lube, though. Treat for FI.

Posted on August 24, 2010 at 2:24 am
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Sorry I never got back to you ladies on the lube, been a crazy time lately.  Anyway, looking thru ur posts, I saw that Anal-ease was mentioned and we tried that first, but it really didn't work, plus I was baffled by why it is cherry flavored - that is just wierd to me.  Anyway, the stuff that worked for us is called SPIKE lube - it has benzocaine in it and the applicator is unique too.  Just wanted to share the info ladies!


Sorry I never got photo 2321784-1

Posted on September 30, 2010 at 4:52 pm
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Posted on October 1, 2010 at 5:46 am
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We do it...I use a special lube as well - not sure if it numbs or not, but it works and makes it pleasureable for me.  Some type of lube is recommended though, I wouldn't do it without. 


I actually really like it :-)

Posted on October 2, 2010 at 8:54 am
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I have used plugs and beads before...I think they help because they get you used to the senstation....even though the size doesn't compare!!  The key is to RELAX!!!!!!! 

Posted on October 2, 2010 at 8:55 am
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