Back door ok or no for you?
I feel weird talking about this but do you and FI/DH have anal? My DH has been slightly obsessed with this since we met and I have tried and tried but end up crying every time. Then a couple weeks ago, we got a shipment in the mail with butt plugs in three sizes and anal lube with numbing agent(we had gotten super smashed a week before and had apparently ordered these things, lol). So, we used them and it worked! DH was super happy and I didn't feel the pain thanks to the lube. What are your experiences with this?