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Just got back from my OB appointment with some test results that both DH and I had to do. Looks like I have low progestarone which is an easy fix. But DH has a very low sperm count. We were recommended to see a specialist to help us decide where to go from here. It looks like our only option is IVF but im not too familiar with any other options out there and im not too familiar with IVF just have heard of it. I am very discouraged and have been crying all day. I know this doesnt mean we wont ever have a baby but it still makes me sad to think that we wont be able to do it on our own. Im not sure how to make DH feel better because I know he thinks it is somehow his fault. 

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 6:06 am
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Emily, (hug) I know how you feel. I fear this too. Cheer up hun, God is good and he will bless you with your heart's desire--All in good time. He created science to help us in situations like this.


You and your hubby can grow closer in eachother and your faith because of this situation.


I fear that if nothing good happens next week for me I'll be heading to see my OBGYN. :(

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 6:48 am
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Posted on July 9, 2013 at 7:31 am
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:-(  I'm sorry to hear that, and you deserve time to grieve that so don't feel bad about crying. 


I like Murph's attitude!  It's not over, you two will still have a baby (maybe even babies!).  You're equipped with a lot of information now so you can start moving in the right direction.  That's good news :-)

Posted on July 9, 2013 at 7:44 am
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Thank you ladies for all of the words of encouragement! I know that God has a plan for us and will continue to pray everyday that he will bless us with a little miracle baby. I think we will take a break from all of this and then schedule our appointment with the RE once were return from our trip to Disney in September. At least that's how I feel at the moment. i may decide to just jump in and start whatever process that needs to be done. I am still so unsure of it all. This has all been overwhelming day. Thank you for your support and kind, uplifting words!
Posted on July 9, 2013 at 12:36 pm
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So sorry honey, please keep us posted,ok? Hugs..

Posted on July 16, 2013 at 3:48 am
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Im sorry to hear but the science is there to help. Do not give up, have faith and you will see that your day will come. I know its easy to say, but dont stress out about it because your body takes the toll.


Im freaking out too about my own situation but i know that its not healthy.


Im sending lots of positive vibes your way!


 


 


 

Posted on July 24, 2013 at 9:23 am

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