Best Bridezilla EVER!!! (Or Worst?)

Just saw this on Yahoo, one of the bridesmaids who received this letter apparently sent it to the media...yikes!


 



To m lovely Bridesmaid: [Names removed to protect the brideslaves]


As you all know I picked 10 wonderful ladies to stand by my side, share and make happen my special day to Jake. Each of you individually have a reason and a special place in my heart of why I picked you to be a bridesmaid. We have set our date for Saturday, August 31, 2013 in Vail, Colorado. That seems far away but it really isn't, the earlier the planning the better. You may have already knew that my wonderful sister L— will be the Maid of Honor, she's in charge under me. Also my lovely mom will be a big help as well. L— has a big role in throwing me a bridal shower and bachelorette party, of course all of you guys do but at the end of the day shes the go to person and makes it happen.


You all have a big roll in this wedding, so before we continue I'm going to be setting some ground rules and its very important you read and think about everything through before you accept this honor to be a bridesmaid. If you guys email anything I would also like you to put L— in the CC. Not all the bridesmaid need to be CC'd unless its coming from me or L—, if it something everyone needs to see then well do it. We set the date to August 31, 2013 if that's a problem we need to know NOW. Also by the end of the week we will be setting dates for the engagement party, bridal show and bachelorette party.


Our wedding party is really the most important people at the wedding besides my self and Jake so we want every single one of our bridesmaid and grooms at our parties, I have 10 not 8 where two couldn't make it so if you already know you cant make one of the parties then we have to find someone else, not to be harsh in the slightest it would sadden me and of course you'll still be invited to our wedding, engagement ect. But it's different if your not in the wedding party and couldn't make it. We'll give everyone well advance dates for the parties and it will always fall on a weekend. The wedding as I stated will be in Vail the engagement party will either be in NY or CT and the bachelorette party will be in Vegas, cliche yeaa but I've never been.


A few girls live out of town so if there is going to be a problem with coming to either one then I need to know now because after this week I don't want to be surprised. I would like everyone to send me any dates they are going away or planning to go away after February so if your going away in January I don't care. I want any dates from February to the day of our wedding in August, that way we know not to plan something when your away. But after this week the dates are set in stone. Also if money is tight and you cant afford to contribute to say the bachelorette party or wont be able to afford a dress etc then L— and Myself don't have time to deal with that, I'm sorry. This includes flights as well, everyone knows the states where the parties are going to be held so if you wont be able to afford a flight then that means you cant make a party which ultimately means I cant have you as a bridesmaid. Obviously we'll get the best deals and were not gonna books flights for $1000 and shit that's why were doing this in advance, that goes for bridesmaids dresses as well everything will be affordable but if you think by affordable its going to be a $25 forever 21 dress then your going to the wrong wedding.


If your out of state though don't think you have to fly in for all fittings, that we will work with you, find stores in your town, get measurements..you don't have to worry about that. Also if you accept this honor another thing is that you need to be available, I'm not going to harass you with wedding stuff every hour of everyday but if its something important and it takes you a week even 2-3 days to get back to me seeeee ya! I don't have time to wait around for responses, everyone has their phone on them, it shouldn't take you more than a day to get back to me, even if your out of the country, check your email!


Furthermore, Ever since I could remember I have dreamed about this day all my life. I want to share it with the people that are most important to me. You only get one time to plan your dream wedding and I couldn't pick a more amazing group of girls to make that dream come true! So please, what's stated above think about it all and by Wednesday I need to know if everyone is 100% in, and what I have asked about sending me dates if your gonna be away between Feb-Aug ill need that on Wednesday. If you don't think you'll be able to attend one party but can make the rest of them I'm sorry but I'll have to take you out as a bridesmaid and put you as a guest. If you want to get back to me before Wednesday, that's fine. Really think about everything I've said. This is really going to be the most epic wedding ever so I hope you girls can share this special day with us!


Love,


Posted on October 5, 2012 at 1:33 am
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Wow, control freak ...I mean BRIDEZILLA!!!! I already wanted to tell her in the beginning that NONE of the 10 bridesmaids are interested. Goodness!!!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 2:26 am
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I saw this on yahoo too!!! OMG I can't believe some people! 


I really want to know if any of the 10 bridesmaids actually went through with agreeing to be a bridesmaid. What a slap in the face that would be if none of them did!!!!!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 2:46 am
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i really wish someone could hack into her email so we could read all of the responses!!!!


my fav part: "I'm not going to harass you with wedding stuff every hour of everyday but if its something important and it takes you a week even 2-3 days to get back to me seeeee ya!"


hahah!! "seee yaaa!!" what a biotch! wow.

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 2:48 am
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Bahah, hey wait how did you guys get ahold of the emial I sent!?

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 2:59 am
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When I read that email, I just knew you had to be the Bride behind it Nicole! haha ;)


I seriously could not believe some of the things she said! I would love to know how many girls dropped out or had to be replaced. This kind of behavior gives Brides a bad reputation!


 

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 3:04 am
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WOW!!!! I don't know what to say to that. I wonder how many of the 10 actually accepted though!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 3:35 am
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Forget being a bridesmaid, I wouldn't even want her has a friend.
Posted on October 5, 2012 at 3:53 am
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Oh wow? Is this a joke? Who does she think she is telling someone to send her dates of if they are going to be away and if you can't make it to all the parties then sorry, you can't be a bridesmaid? Ummm, can we say get over yourself already?

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 3:54 am
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ITA with shondra. i wouldnt want to be her friend. and i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable going to her wedding after she kicked me out of the party if i couldnt spend the next 10 months flying all around the country for her "epic" wedding. her poor poor fiance. its gona be a lonnnng life with that one!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 3:57 am
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Posted on October 5, 2012 at 4:11 am
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LOL at Shondra! I agree :)

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 4:13 am
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hmmmm.... I hope its a joke, if not i feel sorry for her bridesmaids slaves, and I really hope some of those girls put her in her place.

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 4:22 am
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Total Bridezilla. HOWEVER, I think she's been totally honest and forthwright with her attendee's and by setting "ground rules" she's making her life and wedding planning less stressful. I kind of wish I had done something like this to be honest lol. If you were in her shoes, and asked a girlfriend who lived out of state to be a bridesmaid, then 2 months, one month or a week before the wedding she says she can't come because she can't afford the plane ticket or can't drive there? It's better to be open and honest from the start, at least that way there might be less of a chance of people's feelings being hurt.

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 4:50 am
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Oh my! If this is real, I can only imagine what she's going to require of her bridesmaids after this! Wow ...

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 7:12 am
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Did you guys read/see the commentary/responses to bits from the email? Hilarious and exactly what I was thinking in my head when I was reading the email!


It's here if you didn't see the comments
http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/bridezillas-crazy-email-bridesmaids-goes-viral-respond-her-201500809.html

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 7:37 am
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WOW This is just ridiculous! I would've never replied back and hoped she got the hint. LOL!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 7:39 am
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That is pretty crazy!! I think she is very harsh, but it's true that now a days people have their phone with them at all times. It really doesn't take that long to reply to somebody! haha. But anyways, I really do wonder how many BM she actually has now :p


It's hard when people are living out of state, but she should reconsider how many bm she's going to have. Jeez!!

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 9:50 am
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I was reading it and thought what a horrible bride to be, but then again we've had many complaints about how our bridesmaids are not what we had expected so this girl is putting all out there in advance because later there could be date issues specially with such a large bridal party also there could be monetary issues....maybe she said it too straight forward and that's what it's wrong and I definatively do not like the demanding tone of letter that it is but she knows what and how she wants things done..it's up to her friends to be in or out...I bet all ten girls won't be in the wedding...maybe half or less.

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 10:02 am
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Whoa! LOL! She let them have it right!  I had such a hard time with my BM's but even in the worst times I never spoke to them like this! I mean really?


Tese girls are doing you a favor honey! ITs never cheap to be a bridesmaid especially if you live in another state!  I would love to know how they responded to her! I love the responses the website gave!


You wrote: "The wedding as I stated will be in Vail the engagement party will either be in NY or CT and the bachelorette party will be in Vegas, cliche yeaa but I've never beenif you wont be able to afford a flight then that means you cant make a party which ultimately means I cant have you as a bridesmaid."


 


WE'RE NOT RICH. DON'T TAKE THAT PERSONALLY.


 


So that's three parties, in three different states scattered throughout the country. I was hoping to visit my family for the holidays but I guess I'll be out of vacation days and money. See you in 2014, aging parents!


 

Posted on October 5, 2012 at 10:38 am
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WOW!! That is rediculous!!! Man I wish we knew who this was so we could find out how the wedding turns out and if she has any bridesmaids at all.

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 4:19 am
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