Sooo even though im new i need too rant! my bridesmaids are driving me up the wall!! My sister automatically assummed herself as a bm which i graciously went along with as i hate confrontation but now has started making nasty comments too one of my other bm's about the way she is behaving - this bm has told me she wont buy her bm dress as she doesnt like it very much and wont be getting her hair and make up with us at the salon and she will just do hers at home (wth?!?!?!?) even after i tried explaining too her that we all needed too be together on the morning of the wedding as we need too travel too get to the venue and even tried too compromise and say i would pay for her dress if she could pay for her hair and makeup but got nothing from her. this is so frustrating for me as im trying too organise and sort details out for them and especially as i chose the bm dresses as cheaply as i could ($60usd) and hair and makeup for each person is 70usd. if it was a money issue i could totally relate but she earns double what i do and is just being snotty. im soooo lost as too what too do and am at my wits end with her, verging on the point of telling her too please step down as bm.... what do i do?!