bm horror

Sooo even though im new i need too rant! my bridesmaids are driving me up the wall!! My sister automatically assummed herself as a bm which i graciously went along with as i hate confrontation but now has started making nasty comments too one of my other bm's about the way she is behaving - this bm has told me she wont buy her bm dress as she doesnt like it very much and wont be getting her hair and make up with us at the salon and she will just do hers at home (wth?!?!?!?) even after i tried explaining too her that we all needed too be together on the morning of the wedding as we need too travel too get to the venue and even tried too compromise and say i would pay for her dress if she could pay for her hair and makeup but got nothing from her. this is so frustrating for me as im trying too organise and sort details out for them and especially as i chose the bm dresses as cheaply as i could ($60usd) and hair and makeup for each person is 70usd. if it was a money issue i could totally relate but she earns double what i do and is just being snotty. im soooo lost as too what too do and am at my wits end with her, verging on the point of telling her too please step down as bm.... what do i do?!

Posted on August 27, 2010 at 8:20 pm
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AMRWildman
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If she isn't willing to buy the dress then I would kick her out of the wedding party. If she doesn't want to get her hair and makeup done with you guys, then she has to have it done herself before you all go to get yours done, and she can just sit there and wait for you.

Posted on August 28, 2010 at 8:11 am
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Can any of your other bridesmaids reason with her? From the sounds of it you have found very reasonable prices for your BM's.....and it does sound like this particular BM is being difficult. If she's a good friend then I'd try to work with her on this whole thing...if not...I'd ditch her..as a BM and as a friend. You don't need that in your wedding pictures and on your wedding day.

Posted on August 28, 2010 at 6:04 pm
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its your day she needs to buy the dress or not be in the wedding but she can do her own make up and hair the economy is bad rite she may not be to affordable

Posted on September 15, 2010 at 6:01 am

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