BRIDESMAIDS HAIR

Ladies, how do you tell your Bridesmaids that wear weaves that you want to approve their hair before the wedding without hurting their feelings?  I love my girls but sometimes the hair and style that they pick puzzles me.  I don't want my wedding pictures to look a mess.

Posted on May 18, 2010 at 6:45 pm
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You can send an email (bridemaid's newsletter/ update email with some styles that you like (prefer), and ask them to "PICK ONE",  because  you are going for a "cohesive look" and you want to be sure every one is on one accord

Posted on May 19, 2010 at 4:26 am
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cornish that is a great idea. I made the mistake of letting each of my girls choose thier own hairstyles...and with a week to go I have one bridesmaid that has gone and got a bob by the African hair braiding shop. Im so pissed because she paid so much yet they are not elegant enough for the wedding. So I'd definitely go with Cornish's idea of approaching it as a way for cohesiveness.

Posted on May 19, 2010 at 5:44 am
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Dito, just tell them you want a certain style.  My friend had all of us in buns to the side.  I personally don't want everyone to have the same hair style but it worked for her elegant wedding.


Dear BM


I found these hairstyles on my favorite wedding site and I've decided I would love for you all to pick one of these styles.  I think these three choices look best with the theme of the wedding and won't clash with the beautiful dresses you will be wearing. I can't wait to see you!


Love Ya,


LOVEI98

Posted on May 19, 2010 at 1:25 pm
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Thanks Ladies, your suggestions are great!  I think I am going to send an email with a couple of pics to choose from.  That way the girls who are getting weaves can select hair that goes best with the looks for the wedding.  You Gals are the best!

Posted on May 19, 2010 at 5:50 pm
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First, off your bridesmaids should be your friends and you just need to come straight out and tell them.  I told one of mine look, I love how creative you are with your hair but for the wedding would you mind toning it down some like so for my pictures.  She was like cool I understand and it was done.  Good luck!

Posted on May 27, 2010 at 9:29 am
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@carmela, thats a good point, only thing is, your tone down, and her tone down, could be two different things, " Im in the south so I see blue hair, hot pink, etc. so tone down to somebody I know, could mean instead of hot pink, they gone do, baby pink" lol


So thats why i say, " These are your style choices, Pick ONE" lol


 

Posted on May 27, 2010 at 11:11 am
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yes - i'm sending pictures in the BM newsletter.hopefully, I don't get any crazy hairstyles!

Posted on June 4, 2010 at 5:32 am

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