bridezilla check!!!

ok I've had enougha nd I'm realy fed up.  Most of you know this but for those who don't here is a re-cap.  My FIL lives in UK.  I offered to get the tux here for him so he doesn't have to pay for a 3 week rental or buy one over there since he will never wear it again. He was really happy with this.  Then I asked him to go to any tux place and get measured professionally he didn't he measured himself.  So I asked again and again and again finally I got new measurement.  Later that week while on the phone with FI's mom I said I was glad they got him measured the measurements were really different...she laughed said "yep! thats cuz I did them"  WTF what part of PROFESSIONAL did they not understand.  WE had a blow out and now 2 weeks later I get new measurement he said he went and got them done and they charged him 20pounds which is 40 dollars and completely stupid bt whatever thats not the problem.  they didn't give him any measurements.  Te tux place here says its not enugh info and I sent him exactly what I needed and.... so here is a new e-mail and I just want to check with you all f this is too bridezilla and should I not send it:


 


Here are the measures he sent me:
> >
> > Chest size - 40S (40 short)
> >
> > Waist size - 34
> >
> > Isnide leg - 31
> >
> > Collar size - 15
> >
> > Regular arm lenght- THIS IS NOT A MEASUREMENT??

K,


So these measurements are missing a lot of information.  Such as arm length inseam and outside? Also pants?  where is the length?  your weight and height? Coat size and shirt size.  We Americans are just too dumb to nderstand "regular" this is not a measurement.  We need numbers.  I was on the phone with the tux place and they wont accept this its not enough information.  We have a month left until the wedding and this is not something I really can deal with anymore.  Maybe it would be better for you to rent a tux in UK and be done with it.  I have so many other things that I need to deal with and this is really too much for me.  So you are more then welcome to try again and pass the info to Nik because I've had enough between your tux and the girls dresses I'm going to go crazy.  I'm sorry.

Posted on August 13, 2008 at 4:33 pm
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Sarahinwonderland
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I think it is fine. You have been going through complete hell with this tux thing. It definitely should not be causing this much trouble.

Posted on August 13, 2008 at 4:37 pm
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Just- Oh boy, men, sometimes they don't understand. your email was fine. He will get the picture. My FI waited until really late to get a suit. We lucked out and got the last light weight summer, light colored suit on the sale rack. I was freaking and he was like, no problem. He still needs a shirt needless to say and will probably wait till the last minute. As hard as it is, we just have to let it go and let them do what they need to do (even if it's not on our time line!)


Some food for thought-if he is going to rent a tux in UK he might be better off buying a less expensive one, will be less $ than a rental.

Posted on August 13, 2008 at 4:46 pm
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ya just let it go.  he can deal with it on his own then or like i said before


FI CAN DO IT!!! honey you don't need to be the one dealing with his dad.  so sorry!!

Posted on August 13, 2008 at 5:12 pm
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thanks ladies.  I sent him the e-mail and he said he is going to buy a tux there.  He also wrote that "he will wear it at my wedding and then hopefully it will cover his body in the coffin"  So morbid FI is really pissed off and disappointed with his family right now :(  They are great people and we have never had any problems before in fact we get along great so I don't know what the problem is.  But oh well I no longer have to worry about it as I have way more issues to attack before the wedding...  Thanks for all of your support I don't know what I would do without it :)

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 5:35 am
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oh my god you poor thing!!!


men are so hopless.. for some reason we can't live with em and we cant live without em... weddings just do tend to cause so much stress and tenssion between everyone involved.. try and take a few deep breaths, try and stay calm and in 4 weeks you can look back and say thank god i dont ever wan't 2 organise another wedding ever... lol


imagine if you were awedding co-ordinator!!! lol no way would i b one... good luck try to stay calm...

Posted on August 16, 2008 at 9:16 pm

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