Changing the Date! :( Long read!
Well ladies there is part of me that is very upset about this but there is also a part that is relieved and feel that we have made the right decision.
We have decided to change the date of our wedding to September 20th of 2014! I am so sad because I can't wait to marry the love of my life but honestly I am so happy that we have more time. Even though it's a day off from our anniversary date the 21st is a Sunday and we don't want our guests to have to worry about work the next day.
As much as I hate to put my business out there we decided to reschedule the wedding for several reasons. My daughter, grandson and her boyfriend moved in with us back in September of last year. It's been awful! Partly due to the fact that I think her boyfriend is a lazy good for nothing POS but also because they have totally disprespected my home and never clean up after themselves. This has really been a source of pain and aggrivation between my daugther and I. There is way more to this but I couldn't possibly cover all the bases. Although we have had Jim's apartment to escape to from time to time we have always looked forward to him moving in when his lease was up. Well his lease is up in a few days and we have been killing ourselves to finish up two bathroom remodels so he can move in. Add to that the stress of living with so many people since I have two OTHER younger children....AND.....my daughter just revealed to me that she is pregnant again and due September 24th!!!!!!!!!!! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh~! That's three days after my wedding. I'm deeply hurt and saddened by this but am trying to be there for my daughter.
Even though Jim and I have both been married before, neither of us has ever had a wedding. and I just don't want to plan a wedding surrounding all the stress and crazyiness. In addition, even though we would be able to afford everything we would be under so much pressure and would have NOTHING in savings in case of an emergency! Not that we ever have a lot but it would take us down to nothing and potentially cause financial problems for us and I certainly don't want to start things out like that. Our bathroom projects went way over budget and I just don't want to have another huge expense on the direct heels of another.
I'm sorry this post was so long it was purely unintentional.
Thanks for listening.