children as part of the wedding
I know this has probably been discussed before, but I'll ask anyway. My friend is getting married she has 1 child and her FI has 4. Her FI is having his son as his other BestMan and so she asked his oldest dghtr to be a BM and the two younger children to be hostesses. A family member told her she should have the younger ones as Jr Bridesmaids because it was the right thing to do and that would make them part of the wedding. Needless to say she is having second thoughts because she doesn't want them to feel left out and she thought they were part of wedding since they were hostesses. She had also planned on having sand ceremony to include them in. What are your thoughts?