So I have a childhood friend and we used to be the BEST of friends. I moved away for several years and just recently came back to Arizona. We started really hanging out again for the first time 8 months ago. Obviously, things have changed. I feel grown up, but I feel like she has not. Anyway, I have picked my cousin to be my maid of honor, which really made my childhood friend ticked. From there, these are the things that have happened:
When I first went to try on wedding dresses I asked all of my BM's to be there. This friend told me she would be, but she never showed up. She called me three hours later (2pm) saying...oh i just woke up! WTF.
My BM's have been trying to get in touch with her to organize things, showers, bachelorette parties, but she does not answer her phone or call them back.
My wedding is in October, and I asked all of my girls to get their dresses NO LATER than July 23. Well hello August 11, she still has not ordered her dress! I gently reminded her yesterday that it can take up to three months for her dress to come in.
Then, I had my bridal shower a couple weeks ago, and she showed up 20 minutes late with some random girl I dont know. She didnt speak to anyone there but this girl, then sends me texts through out the shower trash talking my family! And during some of the shower games, she got upset because she didnt win and openly argued with my aunt.
Also, she came to my house to visit me for the weekend (we live about 3 hours away from each other) and my parents wanted to visit that weekend too. She got so upset she threatened not to come and said I need to stand up to my family.
THIS IS MY FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is jealous of my FAMILY, its not like these are my friends she is hating on. If she cannot even get along with them for a couple hour shower, how am i supposed to expect her to get along with them for an entire wedding day?!