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I was just reading your bio and read the part that your dad does not approve of your marriage, my filipino family does not either! Sometimes I think that they would be better if he was filipino, but then I decided that that is just them. No matter who we marry they will disapprove one way or another! We just went to LA to visit my mom and a lot of my family and the whole time they were looking for things to be unhappy about with my Michael. I believe they will all get over it once they realize it is a forever choice.

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 7:21 am
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You are right about people, they will always find something wrong. We said a prayer for our wedding weekend that our family would set a side all there drama and judgements and petty arguments. It worked, for 3 1/2 days they were all happy and pleasant. It was a true miracle. I am glad you have found your forever love, just ignore them and don't engage when they put him down. Always stand up for him as the strength in you life. He will feel more appreciated and will be that strength. If you start to complain about him around you fam it will hurt him deeply... I am so happy for you!

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 8:00 am
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Aw thank you. I will be praying a lot before our wedding.

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 8:03 am
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Haha, I also have to separate them from my dads side because they dont like each other either. I am gonna have a hell of a time making the seating charts!

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 3:48 pm
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you and me both!


members of my "first mother"'s family seem to hate my dad for remarrying...  then there's the issue of IF my dad will show up at all!


it's all drama - like those filipino dramas on tv!! hahaha


whatevs - they can come or they dont have to - i'm too old and dont have the patience to please everyone!

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 3:52 pm
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OMG Filipino soap operas are so funny! Yeah I have just given up, I am going to do what I want and they will get over it!

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 4:07 pm
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Soory to but in, but unfortunately, weddings bring out the worst in friends and especially families. I know this from my own family drama.


The only thing to do is remember that this is YOUR life and YOUR wedding and if they can't be happy for you, SCREW THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They will be sorry in the end.

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 4:10 pm
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amen TCB!!!!   my thoughts exactly!! 


i mean really - this day is about celebrating a union of two people - which i guess does involve the 2 fams - but i HATE drama and if certain peeps dont want to come and celebrate - then they can sit their dumassess at home and be bitter or whatever!  whew - that was really nice to say!!

Posted on July 6, 2008 at 4:12 pm
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Goodess, what do they feed filipinos stubborn pills or something when they are young because they really are! It is funny at times how stubborn they are. I think it runs in the blood because FI tells me I am way to stubborn all the time haha.

Posted on July 7, 2008 at 3:59 am
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i'm stubborn too - but i know how to pick my battles - it seems lke older peeps in our culture are stubborn just to manipulate us into doing what they want us to...  and it's been my experience that previous generations are also nervouse for the well-being of our generation since they cannot control it...  maybe they just dont want to let go - who knows - i'm tired of figuring it out =)  =)  =)

Posted on July 7, 2008 at 4:09 am

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