I can't read the post for BM is pi$$ing me off. Don't y'all know that is a bad word and work blocks it from my viewing pleasure. GRIPES!
Here, cleaned up and pasted for your enjoyment. :)
SHe is never available to go BM dress shopping because she spends every waking moment with her boyfriend. THen she keeps saying, when are we gonna go?? I let her now her options, oh...I don't think I can go those day, Brian is off. WTF...then last week she calls me and says, how about the 13th?!?! I said great, and she said she will have to check Brian's work schedule. (this was on tuesday) She told me that she would call me on wednesday. NEver did. I call her thursday and leave a message. NOTHING. Call her again on sat and sunday. No call back. I call and text her yesterday...nothing! Now she texts me...I can't. WTF...she's not being a good friend at all lately. All she wants to talk about is her bf. It's pi$$ing me off. We never hang out or anything anymore. I haven't seen her since I got engaged, and It's not to lack of effort on my part.
just pick a dress and b done with it!
or give her paramenters (color, fabric, etc) and just let her do it by a deadline you give her???
yea, I just thought this would be fun for us. SHE loves this kind of stuff, and has been talking about it since before I got engaged!! WTF, it's really pissing me off that she's putting me on the back burner. OMG...she's even doing her boyfriend's homeowrk for him, seriously.
Is this a new relationship for her? If so, she's probably on Cloud 9. Seems like she can't sacrifice a day to go dress shopping. I agree with Maria - can you pick up the gown and have her take care of alterations? Maybe you should also talk to her about this just so you can prevent future problems from happening.
she's been in this relationship for almost a year. Well, the first 5 months were then just sleeping together. APparently they weren't "offical" until december. I feel like I'm in high school lol. She does this with all her realtionships, completely drops everything, they guys end up walking all over her. I know brian wont to it intentionally, he's always lost in his own little world....but she needs to bring it to his attention or something
i say you tell her if she can't go with you by "x" date....then you will chose for her, so it's up to her, she can have input, or leave it up to you. Ball is in her court.
jackie said balls!!
I think you should just pick something and if she gripes, tell her you've asked her to come with you so many times and she never can so you just made the decision on your own. Better that you just get the dress picked now because I can already see the nightmare coming of trying to get her to go in and get measured!!! :S
(oops double post)