DF's stupid groomsmen are driving me insane.
You know, I didn't even WANT a wedding party. But it was important to DF and I wanted this to be his wedding day too... so I sucked it up and asked some of my friends and he asked his. FBIL who made my life a living hell for a year and a half is his best man (because he threw a fit when DF said he was just going to have groomsmen). Two of them I have no issue with whatsoever, I actually really like both of them. The last two? Will. Not. Call. Him. Back. We've been trying to let them know what they need to wear and have been asking them for a headcount of how many people they will be bringing with them (they both have wives and young kids so we wanted to know if they're bringing all the kids, do we need to find a babysitter for them, etc.).
DF's been leaving voice mails and e-mailing them for over a month now and nothing. Is it wrong of me that I really hope that they just end up dropping out? I am so sad for DF that his friends are being so flaky... I mean, I had a bridesmaid drop out but at least she let me know she couldn't afford it as soon as she knew and didn't leave me hanging! I just don't understand how two grown men with kids, wives, homes, jobs and everything can have so much trouble picking up the phone and either saying "Hey man, I'm coming with my wife, leaving the kids at home" (or whatever) or "I"m so sorry, I'm just not going to be able to make it."