DH doesn't like Preseed

DH just let me know last night that he does not like using preseed when BD'ing. He says it numbs him and he can't feel anything. I completely understand that he doesn't want to use it if that is the case, but what else is there? We can't bd without some type of lube, even just using the preseed is sort of hurts. I do have fertile cm at that time of the month but no where near enough to make bd'ing comfortable without something else. My first thought was water but not sure that would stay lubed up the way we would need.....


Any ideas of what else could work?


And, I just bought another full tube the other day! Why couldn't he tell me this sooner!

Posted on August 12, 2011 at 5:46 am
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That is strange... I don't think it has any numbing ingredients.  I know the recommended amount of it was WAY too much for me, even when my vajeen was as dry as the Sahara thanks to Clomid! LOL-  Are you using just a tiny bit or filling up the whole insert tube?  I could see how being too lubed up would make for less feeling.

Posted on August 12, 2011 at 6:12 am
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Ditto, Allie. The Preseed doesn't have any numbing agents so what feels "numb" to him is probably actually a lack of friction. Try using less of it and see if that works a bit better.
I've never used it but my bff did and her DH said the exact same thing the first couple of months and then she played with the amounts(less of it) until they were both ok with how things felt. She probably would have liked to use more but they still found a happy medium eventually.

Posted on August 12, 2011 at 6:59 am
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Thanks ladies. After doing a bit of research I found that same thing. I only use .5-1mg I think so I use less than the recommended amount I think, but I may just use as an external lube and see if DH finds it more comfortable then. We don't really need it once we get going, just the inital punch (if you will :p) I will try that next time and see if it helps DH.


His suggestions was a lot of foreplay for me.....maybe I will let him try that for awhile. :o

Posted on August 12, 2011 at 7:04 am
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Go with his suggestion!!!! lol! :)

Posted on August 12, 2011 at 7:25 am

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