DH's family CRUSHED my feelings.
I'm so sorry, but I need to vent and I know you ladies will understand.
Yesterday, DH and I went to a picnic that his side of the family was holding. Of course, there were lots of young families and a few babies present. The first thing my MIL did when we arrived and sat down was bring an adorable little girl over to me and put her on my lap. (Which in and of itself is fine--I love snuggling all that cuteness!) But then she said "I just wanted to bring her over for you to hold so you'll hurry up with ours".
Okay. His family knows we are trying really hard with no success. So that was unnecessary. But then she tells the grandma of the baby, "I can't wait to be a grandma too, but my DIL there is taking forever". Really? REALLY? Like it's my fault, and I'm dragging my feet or something? If I had my way, I would have been pregnant 9 cycles ago, but it's just not happening.
I'm sure I'm probably just being sensitive, and she may have been joking(?), but I was totally crushed. And I kept saying to DH after we left that this is why we told them we were trying in the first place! So somebody wouldn't say something hurtful on accident. Now they're saying hurtful things on (what feels like) purpose, and I don't know what to do.
If it were your family, would you have a talk with MIL?