DH swaying his opinion......
Hello ladies! I have been MIA for awhile but still lurke on this board to see everyones exciting news. I need some advice and sorry this is long.
DH has always talked about having children. He talked about it more than I did. When we got engaged he always said we should have gotten married years ago so we could already have a family. He had names picked out and even was asking if we could try before we were married. We were both really excited and I have had my heart set on TTC.
We were married in October and had planned to start TTC right away. Since then sex has basically come to a stop, no matter how hard I try to start anything. He said at one point he would give me a baby for christmas, but nothing.
I confronted him about this about 2 weeks ago and he said he wants a family and would be extremely happy if we got pregnant, but he just wasn't sure anymore. Im just not sure what to make of this. AND since then, I have absolutely no desire to be intimate and have been having an attitute toward him. I know this, but don't know how to stop how I am feeling. I almost cried at Christmas watching him with our nieces/nephews thinking that I can't have that yet and our children won't get to grow up with them.
Anybody ever experience this or have any words of wisdom for me.