Disappointing Bachelorette "Party"--Have to Vent!!!
I don't want to depress anyone but I have to vent. My bachelorette party was this past Friday and it was such a disappointment. It was a small group to begin with (my MOH, two future sis in laws, two close girlfriends)...I was taken to dinner in Times Sq (one of my fave restaurants, Bubba Gump) and it was nice to say the least. It's hard when you're not so close to everyone in the group so the chit chat was awkward a few times. So when we leave the restaurant, my MOH turns to me and asks "so, what else do you want to do?"....I thought it was something that the group was supposed to plan without much info from me. I did email my MOH a few weeks ago with a ton of ideas that I was interesting in doing. But I guess she didn't take any of them into consideration and never bothered to think of anything else. Luckily the one friend of mine who had actually stayed (the other had to leave to feed her boyfriend, which i don't get he's a grown man) suggested a pretty cool hangout bar so we all trekked on the subway to uptown manhattan. We were there a full hour when the two sis in laws and MOH, looked at their watches and said "we're leaving, it's getting late". It was only midnight too. I along with my friend were in total shock! They paid the bill and left, I was on the verge of grabbing my beer glass and flinging it at them as they walked out. My friend turned to me and apologized profusely. I told her not to worry, it wasn't her fault. So she decided to continue treating me to drinks for another 2 hrs and then we left.
Am I wrong to feel cheated? I'm not the type of person who says "me me me" all of the time but this was an exception. I thought bachelorette parties were to celebrate the bride? I'm far from being a princess but I was actually looking forward to being #1 that evening.