DTD Challenge

I Love reading these boards cause I get super motivated to try something and DTD more with FI.  I find it hard though to work it into our life.


One of my New Years resolutions is to DTD more often.  Some women are blessed with high drives, I am not one of them.  Its more work for me.  So my challenge for myself and FI is to DTD 3x a week (currently we are lucky if we get 1x).


One night is about him, one night about me and one night about each.  This give me a chance to hone my skills and get comfortable(weight gain) with thiswhole thing.


So my question is,what is your favorite thing to do and get done? Also what could we do on "our" night???

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 6:48 am
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That is a great idea!!!! I know in the last few yrs my drive has seriously deteriorated :(

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 7:40 am
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it's a scientific fact that the more sex you have, the more you want it and the less you have it, the less you want it........so I'm sure once you get that ball rolling it will take on momentum all on it's own! Good for you for making the effort

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 9:32 am
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eh Odessa, I don't know how scientific that is...we don't do it as much as I want it, and I still want it just as much as I did when we first met!

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 1:31 pm
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I find it very hard to keep up with FIs sex drive, I am 7 years older than him, and he is like a rabbit...we could just finish up, and he is ready to do it again 3 minutes later, while I am still huffing and puffing...I try to give it to him 3 times a week, and a quickie sometime during the week, it is not uncommon for him to trap me somewhere and "get in and get out" ...

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 1:51 pm
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Ok I would love to do this, but is it normal that I can only have sex maybe twice a week before it gets so painful. If I have sex too close together and I don't have time to recover I just get super suuuuper sore. 

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 1:53 pm
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I usually have a seriously high sex drive, but since i have been planning this wedding the only thing going through my head is the money being spent on this wedding. Hopefully things will be back to normal Saturday night!

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 1:54 pm
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Last New Year's we each told each other a resolution we would make for the other in the DTD dept.  Mine was for him to go down more often and his was for me to try different positions.  We both kept our resolutions and it was a good year.  


As for your other question...I'm all about "downtown".  I love doing it and I love getting it :)

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 2:11 pm
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@Sofie...by "scientific" I mean they have done studies on the subject that have proven it to be generally true for most people...but there's always the exception! Good for you girl ;)

Posted on January 4, 2010 at 2:43 am
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I find that I fell tired but once we get going I am happy I did.  Its like exercise, you have to get your butt of the couch,once you do your glad you did.  :)

Posted on January 4, 2010 at 10:32 am
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LOL that's a really great way to describe it mcbirnie...and I feel the same way with momentum and the gym....once I get going there frequently it gets easier and easier to go often...never noticed the parallel before! LOL

Posted on January 4, 2010 at 10:39 am
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Lol. 2 things i am struggling with. Losing weight and dtd. Not only are they interchangable physically but they affect eachother.
Posted on January 4, 2010 at 3:13 pm
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very true mcbirnie...  maybe you should go to th VS semi annual sale and pick up a cute panties & bra outfit...  if you feel good in it that may help your sexual side.

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:11 am
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mcbirnie ... you echo my thoughts and feelings .... I just dont have the energy sometimes , I also have decided to give it to him more .... what I like - my fave thing ever is receiving oral .... what do I like to do ... hmmmm recieve oral???  LOL ....


I am working on being more "giving"  and initiating more ..... something for the night you do each ...how about a 69??   its a win win :)

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:19 am
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lol niecy I'm terrible at 69...  I get into it and forget what I'm doing to him... and it just seems like a weird angle for me to pleasure him....

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:21 am
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I used to HATE 69 because I wanted to just enjoy the receiving part ...LOL ...but I actually find it's easier to give the BJ from that angle .... I don't feel so "impaled"   ;)

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:28 am
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LMAO impaled!  so are you (get ready for a major tmi moment) on top?

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:31 am
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yes Im on top .... oh goodness I would never be on the bottom of the 69 ...talk about IMPALED!  :)

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 5:35 am
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yeah that's what I was thinking!  haha...  I think I need to work on the 69 skills

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 6:04 am
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I was on top once and my body jerked when i climaxed,I was afraid I was going to break his nose.  Now I am on the bottom.  LOL

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 10:12 am
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I love this group too!!!  I feel like I have a woman I can lean on that understands and get advise from.

Posted on January 5, 2010 at 10:12 am
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