Facebook & Ex's

An ex boyfriend from high school (and we broke up in high school). We tried to be friends, however his idea of a friendship was to call and make me cry at every conversation.


Back in 2003/4 was the last time I spoke to him on the phone, and I told him that I NEVER EVER wanted to be contacted again. Yes, 6/7 years ago!!


Well every now and then he sends me a FB or MySpace (why I deleted my acct there) trying to engage me in a conversation. Normally I ignore it... however with all the crap I'm dealing with right now, his message today send me over the edge. Hence the "vent"


Today it said... "Hey it looks like things are going good for you. I just want to see how you are doing, its been so long since we spoke. You don't even have to confirm as a friend, just hit me upon email and we can chat. take care."


Dude your married w/ a kid.... leave me alone!!!

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:30 am
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miss_em2010
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ew. :(

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:35 am
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Its really gross... I mean, the once he tried contacting me the day before valentines day.


I sooo do not think is current wife knows about this... i mean come on, I dated you when I was like 14/15. 12/10 YEARS AGO!!!


My FI knows... he just shakes his head at it.

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:41 am
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that is uber creepy....hopefully he doesn't show up on your doorstep one day...eek.

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:43 am
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thanks for the nightmare.... I don't think it will come to that, but if it did I would let FI handle it :)

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:50 am
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YIKES! What a creep! I feel bad for his current wife :(

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:55 am
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I do too.... He joined the Navy, so I'm sure there are times where she just waits for him and he is out sending creepy FB messages to girls. I just got done chatting with an old high school friend about this, and she deleted him as a friend prior to this event b/c of the odd things he was saying.


But I mean I am so dumbfounded that for the last 6/7 years I have ignored every attempt his as tried to contact me with... and he is still at it!?! When is enough, engouh?

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 7:59 am
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Ugh!!!  That sucks for his wife!  And kid!  Maybe someday he'll get the point and back off.


Speaking of exes and facebook--I found my husband's psycho ex on facebook.  They broke up in early 2007 and she still has tons of albums with pics of him.  Like pics of them kissing and at the beach together and stuff.  It seriously makes me so sick!  I hate exes!!!

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:04 am
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My fi's ex keeps requesting her as a friend on facebook...she is irritating me..and she will write about him on the walls of mutual friends we have so that i can see it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:09 am
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Wildfire... that is gross!! I mean there is one thing to have a group picture with an ex up then there is another with having "relationship" pictures up... i mean... its over, just move on.

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:12 am
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Mrs. Harris... that is just rude! I mean, I just don't understand how people don't get the fact that they need to just move on.

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:14 am
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GRRR... This is why I hate the "idea" of FB and Myspace.. I do NOT want to be contacted by my ex bf or flings...  NOR do I want them to see "how I'm doing now"... I'm doing great leave me alone and go on with YOUR life...


Just reply "F OFF" :) jk

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:14 am
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sidetracking....my Fi's ex is a "singer" (I use that word loosely) and she wrote a song TO HIM and STILL has it on her myspace page....:::shudder::: exes are the worst.

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:14 am
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MissHammy... I did... 6/7 YEARS AGO!!! lol... its just gross. I do have an ex that is a friend on FB, however we hardly chat ... and we both understand that the relationship between us has changed, its just an acquittance thing now. 

Posted on November 4, 2009 at 8:18 am
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How to rid friend request on FB. You can remove the friend box and just leave the messaging box, or remove both.

Posted on November 5, 2009 at 3:36 pm
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I don't know or get why ex's feel the need to contact you... It's just creepy but maybe they are hoping to hear that you miss them or that you really wish you were with them... Either way, it's creepy...


 


My ex just recently sent me a message to wish me congrats and then he let me know he proposed to his girlfriend and that she freaked out when she saw the size and asked if it was fake... I died of laughter cause that was his way I THINK of letting me know she got a big rock... (I had broken up with him and all signs before we broke up indicated we were getting married)...


I just think men sometimes need to pet the ego... <prrr>

Posted on November 9, 2009 at 9:02 am
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Ugh - another reason facebook sucks.
Posted on December 18, 2009 at 5:31 am

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