FFIL is a Bast$%&!

Yes, you read it correctly.


Just give me a minute and I will be out of the way.


He says to my FI, that he doesn't think that we should get married because he doesn't know anything about me or about my family.


EXCUSE F-ING me... but I didn't know I was marrying his FATHER!


And do YOU think after a year, he did anything more than ask me how my day was?


NO.


How many siblings do you have?


NO.


Favorite sports team?


NO.


FI's mother is curious about me, she and I shop, cook together, and talk by phone...


he says hi, bye, and then shuts me out.


What an a$$. And my f-ing FI says, oh maybe we can go over there more often,


YOU COWARD.


UGHHHHH! I am so pee'd off, I swear he is so scared of his father it's not even funny!


 


Sorry, I had to get that off my chest.

Posted on April 11, 2010 at 6:42 pm
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Wow! Not really sure what to say to that! I think your FI needs to tell your dad that maybe he should be a bit more approachable in order to get to know you better.


At the end of the day your FI chose you not his father so try not to let it get to you too much!

Posted on April 11, 2010 at 6:45 pm
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You know, I'm almost not sure, that he fully chose me.


And that's the sad part.


He thinks I need to try again... he is out of his mind. He chose his friggin' crazy father when he said those words to me...


But thanks almost_a_Mrs... I just needed to vent to someone... ;(

Posted on April 11, 2010 at 6:50 pm
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I'm sorry, but your FI needs to step the F up and talk to his Dad!  He has no reason, or right, to say he doesn't know anything about you if he doesn't go out of his way to try to get to know you like FMIL did.  I can't believe that FI says that you guys need to try more - no, how about your stupid Dad tries harder?!?


If your FFIL isn't willing to put any effort into it, why should you?  Ugh, that would drive me nuts!


I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this crap - FI needs to put an end to this!

Posted on April 11, 2010 at 7:01 pm
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I meant he chose you to be his fiance- I didn't mean he chose you over his dad. You were his choice- not his dad's and regardless of whether his dad thinks he should marry someone else or not, it isn't his dad's choice and he should respect the one his son has made.


I hope things get better!

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Thanks akbridehi... He seems like a coward and a punk to me right now, and it's so retarded that he doesn't even know what to say, he just repeats the same thing over, they have nothing to do with it...my parents have no say in my choices.. but ultimately it seems they do!


He's so busy trying to please his daddy. and he won't ever be able to, why won't he get it!


Thanks ladies, who know knows how long I am going to be pissed about this... and I am on my way to canceling the whole thing.... it's not worth this!

Posted on April 12, 2010 at 7:09 am

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