First dance

My FI does not care that I'm taller than him and he loves when I wear heels, except when we're dancing. He refuses to dance with me when we're out at bars! He says it's because he doesn't like to dance but I think it's because our height difference is so apparent when we're standing pressed against each other. I don't want him to feel self conscious, but I know everyone will be expecting a first dance. I'm thinking of cutting it completely, seeing as it's not that important to me.


What is everyone else doing about the first dance?

Posted on November 2, 2011 at 7:01 am
Abby12490
3
11/01/2012
Abby12490

Abby12490

  • 3
  • 12
  • 633
71
Followers
74
Following

(2) Comments

mrandmrsross
4
05/26/2012
mrandmrsross

mrandmrsross

  • 4
  • 14
  • 2.51k
328
Followers
331
Following

mrandmrsross

I'm so scared about this part.  lol  Our FI's sound about the same... except mine doesn't care about the dancing.  I seem to be the one with a problem when it comes to our heights.  I think we're going to do a first dance, but I'm not wearing heels for the wedding (even though FI wants me to!).  Everyone already knows that I'm taller than FI, so it won't be a shock... plus I don't want to regret not doing it because of some silly insecurity in my head. 


What if you kick off your heels before the dance so the difference isn't as prominent? 

Posted on November 7, 2011 at 1:31 am
Ruth150565
1
03/12/2016
Ruth150565

Ruth150565

  • 1
  • 2
  • 5
0
Followers
4
Following

Ruth150565

Second time I was engaged he was uncomfortable with height difference and did not want to dance with me. Plan was to NOT have a first dance. Actually considered no dancing at all. Relationship broke up (not because of that), so don't know for sure what would have happened
Posted on September 25, 2015 at 12:45 pm

Have a question? Contact Support
Top Contributors this Week
anah667th
anah667th
7 posts
annaclark857
1 post
kylieq99
1 post
MattieOwens
1 post