My FI does not care that I'm taller than him and he loves when I wear heels, except when we're dancing. He refuses to dance with me when we're out at bars! He says it's because he doesn't like to dance but I think it's because our height difference is so apparent when we're standing pressed against each other. I don't want him to feel self conscious, but I know everyone will be expecting a first dance. I'm thinking of cutting it completely, seeing as it's not that important to me.
What is everyone else doing about the first dance?