FMIL making me nuts!
So my wedding is 16 days away now (ahhh!) and my FMIL is starting to make me nuts.
Last week she emailed us asking to add some family in PA to the wedding (even thought it was two weeks after the RSVP date)...it's her sister-in-law's cousins-in-lay (yeah try to follow that one)...somehow they heard about the wedding and said they were coming. Um, how can they just come if THEY WEREN'T INVITED???? So we did end up sending them an invitation for his mom...and THEY DIDN'T EVEN RSVP! WTF.
How today his mom just emailed me saying "Please include Tita Julie, she's my cousin from LA and she moved NYC last week and will definitely come"...WTF??? Again why will she definitely come if she wasn't invited??? And the wedding is in two weeks!!!!!!
I'm like really losing it. I feel like its so rude (1) for people to invite themselves like that; (2) for us to invite them so late in the game; (3) and then for them not bothering responding. And most importantly FMIL isn't even like asking if these people can be invited...she's just telling us. Nevermind the fact that my mom and dad are paying for the wedding and now this is 3 more people to add. They won't say anything but I know they're going to notice the count keeps changing!
I feel like people just keep inviting themselves because the want to see the wedding--since FI is Filipino and I'm Indian and we're having an Indian wedding. So now people are hearing about it and are like "oh we gotta see this".
I don't know what to do. I don't want too make a big deal of it but I should tell FI to talk to his mom right? I mean they need to understand they can't just keep adding people and they should take my parents finances into consideration AND also etiquette!