Frequency

So how often do you two DTD?! & is there a time you prefer?


For us, every other day ish? When we were dating and even when we were first engaged, it was everyday!


& there is not any specific time for us either. Morning, afternoon, evening. It varies.


Let's hear it ladies :)

Posted on December 19, 2009 at 1:32 pm
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Usually after ds goes to bed, but if we are off work and he is at school then its a free for all or if he goes on a sleepover.  We like to o it as much as possible.  Sometimes FI has to work late or work long hours, in his business his hours vary, so we make time as much as possible.  I prefer it whenever really, I like it when I have more energy obviously :)

Posted on December 19, 2009 at 2:07 pm
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I wish we had time to do it more, but our schedules conflict between him working crazy hours in retail and me going to school. I'd say we average about once or twice a week right now and it's annoying. It does make it really, really good when we do get to do it though, so at least there's that!

Posted on December 19, 2009 at 2:10 pm
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Oh boy this one varies quite a bit.....sometimes once every 2 weeks or sometimes it is 3 times a week!  depends on how im feeling, and most important is when my 3 year old goes to sleep...it is so hard to sneak and DTD because he is always right there by my side.

Posted on December 19, 2009 at 6:13 pm
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Almost everyday.  Sometimes twice a day.

Posted on December 19, 2009 at 9:49 pm
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JVille - Damn girl!!!

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 1:09 am
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Almost every night but if he has his way then in the morning.  But definately almost every night

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 1:27 am
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ditto joyangela! lol

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 2:12 am
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Lol I could get gross.  My period doesnt even stop him.  I try but he says a period ends nothing in our house but a SENTENCE. lmao

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 9:08 am
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wow JVille! ok, so is this done in the shower? CUz I can imagine the mess this would cause...

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 9:52 am
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Yes shower almost always, you except that last day where you're just spotting I just lay my bath towel down on the bed b/c it's almost no mess.  Have had an "accident" yet. I actually notice that the bleeding is less when I'm having sex, and doesnt as much for the rest of the day either.  So I guess it's a win win for me.  This is NOT for everyone.  I remember I wouldnt do this for the world until I met FI!

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 10:40 am
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Hi ladies...just found about this group!!! WHOO HOO but FI and I do it every other day! And like JVille, FI has the same belief a period is only for the end of a sentence!!

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 11:14 am
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Everyday!!!

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 12:24 pm
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lol my fiance doesn't care about my period either- and frankly neither do I- it's a good cure for cramps >:)  But I tend to decline on the 1-2 really heavy days because frankly it makes too much of a mess and our shower is too small to stay in there the whole time (we've tried)


Frequency has been lowish, 1-2 times a week, but we've both been under a TON of stress the last few months.  Me, for example, working 60 hour weeks and getting up early doesn't exactly put me in the mood.  It's been picking up since things have settled down :)



Posted on December 20, 2009 at 12:25 pm
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Unfortunately I work days and DH works midnights ...he works 4 nights then he is off 2 , then it repeats ....


DH wants to DTD both his nights off which would put us at 2-3 times a week ....however ... I don't always cooperate .... Our life is super busy and I am exhausted by bedtime (which in a house with 3 -5 kids in the house at all times is THE ONLY time we are DTD)  so on average we are DTD once a week , 2 if we are lucky :/


I start to feel guilty about this sometimes , so every now nad then I play hookie just to stay home and rock his world while the kids are in school  :)

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 1:00 am
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wow I'm really surprised how many people DTD everyday!


Like everyone, we have our ebbs and flows so some weeks we are like bunnies and then other times we can end up letting it go longer. I'd say on average it's about two to three times a week. We've never gone longer than 2 weeks and that was a very rare occasion. The only ther dry spells were when he was over seas for a month, cant help that.


We are also not stopped by that time of the month, yes it can really ease cramping! 


 Duration varies greatly, too. You can't underestimate a good quickie of 10-15 minutes....but then there are those marathon nights. Alcohol can definitely play a big part in that for both of us, if we are numbed from a buzz it can take forever to reach the big O. My DH also has times where after he finishes, he doesn't go soft so we go again right away! I think he's a rare man that can have multiple orgasms LOL

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 2:32 am
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We do maybe 2 to 3 times a week. During the week we are both so tired. And seriously by the time we do go to bed, he has already had to wake me up from the sofa. So I get up and walk to the bed and go back to sleep. And sometimes I'm grumpy and don't want him to touch me LOL. Sex was never a strong thing for us. We used to DTD more back in the day but it was never about that.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:35 am
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For us its about 3-4 times per week.  We are trying to conceive right now so its more like every second day to every day but on average its 3-4 time per week.   periods dont stop us either but like othrrs not during the heavier times, quite the mess...


in the beginning every day wasthe nirm and we would sneak home at lunch when we used to wokr together and DTD then go back haha!  such fiends...

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 6:07 am
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Ours has slowed a little because of his work schedule but it's probably 2-4 times a week.  Sometimes it depends on if his kids or my nephews are staying with us.  I wish we had more time and energy for it.

Posted on December 23, 2009 at 5:56 pm
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wow- this group really gets busy.  LOL  I'm afraid we fall into last place in this category.  8-(  We have gone months without doing it.  it's really been that way our whole relationship so it doesn't bother me.  We are both pretty lazy and like to sleep.  It's funny because on our honeymoon we did it everyday!  It was great!!!  I forgot how much fun it was.  We do want to have a baby soon we i guess we'll need to get busy soon.  I'll remind him that practice makes perfect. LOL  (great group by the way....i just joined)

Posted on December 29, 2009 at 11:10 pm
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Well ladies I will be arriving home tomorrow and after two months of no DTD it will be probably 6 or 7 times tomorrow and probably 3 to 4 for the next 3 1/2 weeks I'm off work! Lol I cant wait to hit a store and get some creams and lotions and more toys!

Posted on December 30, 2009 at 9:41 am
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