Groomzilla Getting On My Nerves Again!
I wish my fiance was like the other guys, less involved and asked no questions. Really! He's a groomzilla and always have an opinion. Well he's complaining about when we go to meet vendors they always seem to talk to me and not him and also barely make eye contact with him. One reason, I was the one who contacted the vendor so we have a relationship. Last night we discussed the planner we met with on Monday and I mentioned that I'm not paying $200-300 for a bouquet and carnations or fake(real touch) flowers will be okay. The planner face dropped when I mentioned me having a carnation bouquet. She thought that was less upscale?
Well Groomzilla goes on and ask what am I doing about the bm bouquet lastnight. I said no real flowers and maybe not a bouquet. I really want to do feather pomanders or maybe they can carry a feather fan. I did not mention my real idea because I know he would have a b**** fit! So, I said I'm not sure. He then goes on a rant about this is his wedding too and he does not want the bm carrying a single rose bouqut and he also gets a say in what they carry. Are you kidding me? Plus I told him I wanted him and the guys to wear all black; I thought that would look classic and upscale. No, he wants them to wear purple vest and white shirts. So I said whatever. I told him the gm is his job and the bm is mine! You can not tell me what they should wear, he is over stepping his groom bounds. So I'm not trying to be secretive but we have been arguing alot and I'm thinking with his " so want to be involved self" that I might need to keep my ideas to myself and just not tell him the truth. I feel like this wedding is two brides and not one!