Ugh so a "friend" I'll call her J, suddenly changed her mind about going to my bach party. Come to find out she asked some other friends if they were in my wedding. My BM said yes that they are in the wedding.
Let me stress that she has money problems BIG time, so I didn't know her situation. The major reason why I didn't ask her to be a BM was because she SUPER flaky. I didn't want to leave her out completely so I was going to have her be a reader. Well I asked her over email ( yes not the best, but we only see each other for birthdays etc.) She has not responded at all.
So I told FI that since she hasn't responded I'm not going to ask her anymore because of programs are being made.
My response to her " GROW UP".