Have I got a job for you...

So, DH and I got into a stupid arguement last night about me not giving him blow jobs. 


Let me preface this by saying that I have a pretty bad case of TMJ (lockjaw), so BJs have never been my favorite thing, but I HAVE done them because I know that he likes it a lot...but over the last year or so, my jaw has gotten progressively worse and it is really uncomfortable for me. 


DH felt bad for bringing it up, because he knows that it really isn't my "fault"...but he says he just misses them.


I guess my biggest problem is that I feel like he wants me to keep going FOREVER...after a few minutes, I am in serious pain and then I don't even want to DTD anymore!!


Any suggestions ladies??

Posted on November 19, 2010 at 6:32 am
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AOII_Panda
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Wow... That's seriously frustrating for you two... I have NO idea... I know that's not heat you'd like to hear... Best of luck... I'm sorry... Maybe don't get too vigorous initially then maybe you'd jaw won't hurt as quickly? That's my best advice sorry :(
Posted on November 19, 2010 at 7:18 am
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do you use your hand with it, does he really expect you to go until he goes?


i would say take breaks an just use your tongue i dont know sorry


thats a sticky situation i know how much men love that

Posted on November 19, 2010 at 10:32 am
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I have a similar situation and now I just do it as a form of foreplay.  I am more willing to try different method and mix it up so I rotate between just tongue, tongue and hand, and just mouth.  But now it always leads to actual intercourse.  Now he says he almost loves it better and I look forward to it now!

Posted on November 19, 2010 at 4:47 pm
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You could just focus on the tip? That way you dont have to over extend your jaw. I have a small mouth, so I know what you mean about pain, also have had some jaw problems before. The tip is also a very exciting spot, focus on that plus use your hands!

Posted on November 21, 2010 at 3:09 am
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Posted on December 2, 2010 at 2:30 pm
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Symone, I feel your pain...literally. TMJ is the worst :-( It also takes my FI FOREVER sometimes, and at a certain point the mood is lost for me, too. We had to have a pretty blunt conversation about it a couple months ago, and he agreed to hurry it up or be understanding if I quit after 30 minutes!! It has been a lot better since then...

Posted on December 2, 2010 at 5:07 pm
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30 minutes!!!  No way!!  LOL


Ok i have a similar issue.  My jaw doesnt lock but I do have TMJ and it can be very painful having your mouth open that long.  I use my hand a lot and only really 'suck hard' when he is about to cum. Also dont use your tongue a lot until he is almost there, it helps relax the muscles in your jaw!


 

Posted on January 11, 2011 at 5:53 am
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I have the same situation. This sounds bad but he is just too big for my small mouth!

Posted on February 4, 2011 at 5:05 pm
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30 minutes?!?  OMG, I couldn't get with that!  I also use a combo approach, and focus on the tip.  We were just talking about this the other night and my FI said he likes when I focus on the tip and deal with the rest with my hand.  But damn, you couldn't get me to do it for 30 minutes - your hubby is a lucky man!

Posted on February 8, 2011 at 1:27 pm
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I dont have that lockjaw problem but I can definitely say that my jaws REALLY get tired and it's soooo painful after so long... I do give BJ a lot but not for long... just a little bit before we DTD. But when I do it for just him... I'm always so hoping he hurrys up because it gets soooo painful.

Posted on April 21, 2011 at 10:06 am
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Baby, I feel ya. I have TMJ too... And here is what I do.


Handies, Handies, Handies.


It sounds ridiculous, but I have *seriously* perfected the art of a fantastic Hand Job. Now, love says he prefers them to the BJ! which is good, because dude, for me, they seriously hurt. All I can say is lots of lube, get right into it, and try things out. Focus on the tip, that little knob of flesh just below the head on the outside (not near his belly) and don't be afraid to try new things. Up and down just gets boring....so change it up a bit. when you get the desired response, keep it up, and he will go...I promise :) Good luck :)

Posted on April 25, 2011 at 2:23 pm
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I have TMJ so bad I was put in braces at age 6 and it has been mostly corrected but overtime as my jaw has grown it has gotten bad again... I got very lucky on this note because my FI does not really enjoy them at all...

Posted on April 27, 2011 at 2:40 am
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I don't know if this has been suggested but how about you mix it up a bit....


{I am about to be raw with my words hear}


Slob him up and down for as long as you can and then you guys DTD but right when you know his rhythm is giving off the 'OH SH*T Imma about to...' give some more slobbing of the knob to finish him off.

Posted on April 29, 2011 at 7:08 am
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omg 30 minutes?! We use it more as a foreplay thing (sometimes I just get in the mood and want to do it lol) but never to the point where he "goes." It's more just to get things "exciting." lol. I would suggest using your hands simultaneously, and alternate with using just your tongue or just your hands (just make sure it's not super dry)

Posted on June 1, 2011 at 1:58 pm
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i just use it as foreplay seriously no more than 5 or 10 min. some licks some nibbles some sucks. its enough to excite and please him with out hurting me

Posted on June 23, 2011 at 11:31 am

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