have you second guessed everything?

is it normal to second guess every thing!!! i have changed my mind on just about everytrhing.....                           also do you guy's have family & friends telling you what you wan't (when it is not what you want) i think that is my biggest problem! glad i have you for support & help!!!!   at least you guys get me!!!! aghhhh    

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:12 pm
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marii143
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Yes about both! Its so annoying. I thinks its because we want it to be perfect and we only get one chance to get it right. It takes me forever to chose something and I hate that. 

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:38 pm
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lol...I do this, about everything in my life lol. Which is why I have spent the last 7 months interviewing every vendor known to man lol.

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:40 pm
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YES!!!


I see all this new, neat, cool stuff all the time, and I say to myself, "OMG that is so awesome - I'm going to do that... Oh duh wait a minute... I've already decided what I'm doing for that - FOCUS SILLY!!!"


and yes, everyfrickinbody thinks that my wedding is their wedding and that they have the best ideas ever.  but they don't.  because I already came up with the BESTEST IDEAS IN THE WHOLE WORLD thanks to PW!  (can I get a woot-woot?!?)

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:42 pm
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I am with you too on changing my mind or being indecisive...I can't pick my shoes, I printed table number cards, but am now going back on those too...then I keep changing around my center pc ideas...I feel like I have nothing done because of it.

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:42 pm
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i am exactly like you!! i second guessed so much..and it cost me here and there.  i changed my color scheme just last month...and i still haven't decided on alot of things.  i have all these opinions in my head..which i really appreciate, but i keep forgetting what i want. 

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 5:42 pm
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well at least i am not the only one!!! lol and soon2bmrsja i am totaly with you.... see stuff iv already got and think thats better thats what i want....                                       i just want it 2 be over! =( so i can chill out and kick back happily married lol....

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 6:11 pm
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I have 2 more weeks untill my wedding, and its so weird the vison I had when I first started a yr ago and what I want now. I have made a drastic change. Things that were super importante to me don't matter any more and stuff that was stupid then I can not live with out. My family has given me ideas that I loved and almost did but it was more important what I thought was right.

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 6:39 pm
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OMG, I second guessed everything up until the day before the wedding!  It's insane!!  I'm a gemini and can't up my mind to save my life! 


But like you ladies, it cost me a pretty penny.  Looking back though I wouldn't change anything.

Posted on September 4, 2008 at 6:41 pm
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YES! Especially little things, like paper products and flowers... I did waste money changing my mind but I think in part its due to what will be about a two year engagement... it was too much time to rethink things over and over again (even the date!). Let's just say that it started as a bbq at a polo club with coral and goldenrod and now its a formal dinner and dance with lavender and navy... I mean seriously, 180 right?!

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 2:33 am
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I've second guessed a lot of stuff, but nothing MAJOR.... things like veil (veil or no veil), hair (up, or half up), jewelry (chunky crystals, or more delicate), necklace (necklace or no necklace), shoes (heels or flats), etc.... and in truth, I've CHANGED all of those things... lol

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 2:41 am
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I've second guessed a lot of stuff, but nothing MAJOR.... things like veil (veil or no veil), hair (up, or half up), jewelry (chunky crystals, or more delicate), necklace (necklace or no necklace), shoes (heels or flats), etc.... and in truth, I've CHANGED all of those things... lol

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 2:41 am
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i'm always second guessing everything! i've become so wishy washy since planning for the wedding! its driving me insane!!!

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 3:11 am
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Yeah, seeing some of the styles and ideas on here has really made me think hard about what our wedding will look like and feel like... I'm glad I haven't changed my mind on my dress, but I have changed the look of our invitiations and the included stationary.  I've changed the flowers and colors and centerpieces now also... ug...

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 3:20 am
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I'm there too...too many choices... too little time... and I keep thinking it is around the corner.

Posted on September 5, 2008 at 3:23 am

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