Hedonism resorts...thought...

Not sure if this falls under DTD but it kinda does and I figure that this is one of the less inhibited groups on the site, that i might get some honest feedback ;)

First let me out it RIGHT out there that DH and I are not swingers or nudists (not that there is anything wrong with people that are. Free love and all that…awesome)

but I have been looking into Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica. It looks like SOOOO much fun. All the reviews say that people are super respectful of limitations and that if you want to stay away from some of the more extreme stuff i.e. people DTD in the public hot tub, on the beach, orgies etc to stay on the “prude”side at night but can adventure onto he “nude side” to experience some of the stuff during the day. I have extremely low self confidence and the idea of a nude beach scares the crap out of me but intrigues me at the same time (if that makes any sense) and ive heard that after a while you don’t even notice anymore since its not gawkers and perverts checking everyone out.  Plus its not all skinny hard bodied gods and goddesses, so you don’t feel self conscious (not sure about that lol)

The theme nights (Toga parties – that’s clothing lol, Pajama party etc) sound like they would be hilarious. They have circus school (trapeze, unicycles, trampoline etc) and you can participate in the big show at the end if you want, premium liquor, water slides at a 18+ resort,  rooms with mirrors on the ceiling and 24 hour porn (soft and hard core available) - it all sounds so different and fun. I don’t know….

So all of this to say WHAT DO YOU THINK???

 

Has anyone here ever been to anything like this?

Is anyone interested in going somewhere like this?

Thoughts on it??

Posted on August 7, 2013 at 1:12 pm
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 I have never done it but I would! FI and I have talked about going and I think it sounds fun. From what I understand, everyone respects boundries and of course no means no so it's not a big deal, but it could definitely add some spice and excitement! They have a nude & a prude side so you don't have to go to the nude beach if you aren't comfortable, but I am curious if at the nude beach you HAVE to go nude? Do you know?

Posted on August 7, 2013 at 8:10 pm
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From what I have read, woman can get away with wearing bottoms (but no tops permitted at all), they discourage wearing bottoms but seem to allow it because of periods etc...apparently there are "clothing cops" that joke around and try to convince you to be totally nude but are good natured and wont harass you if you really don’t want to give up the bottoms (I also read that woman in bottoms tend to get more attention because of the “unknown” rather than the nudes that you see it all. That air of mystery lol) but men are not allowed to be wearing anything at all. I think it’s to stop lurkers lol If men wearing swim suits etc are on the nude beach they are told to leave.

Posted on August 8, 2013 at 10:24 am
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 I watched a documentary about it a few years ago and it looks like a lot of fun! We wouldn't go just because sitting around a pool or on a beach isn't the sort of vacation we would enjoy but the partying side of it looks great.

The show definitely revealed all the 'dirty secrets' of the resort but there wasn't anything awful, people were all very respectful of each other.

I can't remember what it was called, I'll try and find some info about it and let you know xx

Posted on August 15, 2013 at 11:56 am
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Haha, of all things - My DAD went to this place!! LOL, the best part was that I didn't know exactly what kind of resort it was, this was probably 8ish years ago and he didn't even know it was that extreme, so he asked me to help him research and book it online since it was a surprise for his gf. "Sheesh" is all I think about when this resort is mentioned :)

I didn't ask a lot of questions, but as I understand it the place was the height of luxury and they had a great time.

My thoughts on this, if you are curious, why not?? If you and DH are both open minded this might be a really fun adventure for you! This sounds terrible, but my main problem with nudie places is that it's always the people who really shouldn't be baring it all who do! We ran into that in the Dominican, and we weren't even in a topless place...but people did it anyway and there were so many guys running around that had guts so big you couldn't even tell if they were covered below or not, if you know what I mean :p

 

Posted on December 2, 2013 at 12:11 pm
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This is the Mexico part of our honeymoon. We have friends that are swingers and they are respectful of us and our relationship. We are both very flrity and my FI is very sexual. I tend to be more reserved because my body isnt perfect. If you both agree I say go for it. We cant wait to go.
Posted on December 14, 2013 at 10:40 pm

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